sex before marrige

Murasaki eyeliner · 05-03-2008, 02:47 AM

ok i do know that at 15 im no expert on the issue,but id be interested to know what the rest of you think about sex before marrige and the pros/cons of it.

Cicero · 05-03-2008, 04:45 AM

Pros - It's sex, sex is fun.
Cons - Stupid people do it, end up pregnant at 13 with AIDS, and keep the Maury Povich Show in business.

honeythorn · 05-03-2008, 05:05 AM

I've always reckoned you've got to test drive a car before you buy it

Wednesday Friday Addams · 05-03-2008, 05:07 AM

Well I never intend to marry so I don't see the problem in it.

ThreeEyesOni · 05-03-2008, 07:03 AM

Key bit of advice: If you feel the need to be asking for advice about it, you likely arn't anywhere close to being ready to actually make the decision.

Screw what other people give as opinions (pun definately intended) and onlt make the decision based on your own thoughts.

Underwater Ophelia · 05-03-2008, 08:06 AM

I don't see any reason to wait.

Mir · 05-03-2008, 08:15 AM

Sex is bad, sex is evil.

badteccy · 05-03-2008, 08:40 AM

It be pretty hypocritical if I had a problem with it.

Bat Brains · 05-03-2008, 09:28 AM

Pros - It feels really, really, really good
It's good to get some experience
You can say you've done it hahaha

Cons - You're eviiiiiiiil!
You might get diseased if you're not careful
It's addictive
Babies if you're not careful

Underwater Ophelia · 05-03-2008, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Bat Brains

Pros - It feels really, really, really good
It's good to get some experience
You can say you've done it hahaha

Cons - You're eviiiiiiiil!
You might get diseased if you're not careful
It's addictive
Babies if you're not careful

You can get diseases from marital sex, too...

Pantherlette086 · 05-03-2008, 02:06 PM

If you want to do something, do it. I think some people are too young for it, but hey it's their problem.

Underwater Ophelia · 05-03-2008, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Pantherlette086

If you want to do something, do it. I think some people are too young for it, but hey it's their problem.

True sometimes, but not enough.
Often those who are too young get into trouble. If they have a baby, it's the baby's problem. If she or he goes on welfare, it's MY problem.

Mother Of All Things Odd · 05-03-2008, 06:09 PM

Pros of sex before marriage are well cannot think of one. Cons of sex before marriage diseases, such as AIDS, clap oh have you ever seen a picture of veneral warts , that's one of those HPV diseases they want to give shots for, man there's an erotic picture , screaming babies, crappy and pissy diapers no sleep no money and oh yea the only reason why a guy wants to go out with you is because you put out.
If a guy tells you you would if you loved him tell him he'ld wait if he loved you.
At 15 you really are too young to have sex .At least wait till your out of high school .teenage years are hard enuf without all the added problems of the heartache you'll suffer if you start having sex too soon
As far as diseases from maritial sex as before you have sex withone a visit to the dr is always called for and if you get an std after marriage someone is not being faithful.can we say alimony?

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Underwater Ophelia · 05-03-2008, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Mother Of All Things Odd

Pros of sex before marriage are well cannot think of one. Cons of sex before marriage diseases, such as AIDS, clap oh have you ever seen a picture of veneral warts , that's one of those HPV diseases they want to give shots for, man there's an erotic picture , screaming babies, crappy and pissy diapers no sleep no money and oh yea the only reason why a guy wants to go out with you is because you put out.
If a guy tells you you would if you loved him tell him he'ld wait if he loved you.
At 15 you really are too young to have sex .At least wait till your out of high school .teenage years are hard enuf without all the added problems of the heartache you'll suffer if you start having sex too soon
As far as diseases from maritial sex as before you have sex withone a visit to the dr is always called for and if you get an std after marriage someone is not being faithful.can we say alimony?

Alimony doesn't cure your disease. And it also doesn't mean that you can't get a disease while married, which was my point.

gothicusmaximus · 05-03-2008, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Mother Of All Things Odd

Pros of sex before marriage are well cannot think of one.

How about... I don't know, uh, sex?
None of the cons you named are any more applicable to responsible unmarried people than they are to responsible married people, anyway.

witchking · 05-03-2008, 08:01 PM

Sex should happen when the right chemisty is present. If you both want to have sex, have sex.

korinna5555 · 05-03-2008, 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Mir

Sex is bad, sex is evil.

Mir is bad, Mir is evil.

I feel emotions very intensely, so casual sex is not an option for me. Sex strengthened the bond Justin and I share, not to mention it feels damn good..
I have no problem with sex, period.

Oph- I know of several couples (in the Catholic community, LOL) who gave their partner either HIV or HPV after cheating on the other. Kinda sad..

Noumi · 05-03-2008, 10:01 PM

It depends if you're religious or not. If you're a catholic or any other religion that says sex before marriage is a sin, then you're supposed to go to hell if you do it, but if you don't beleive that, it's fine. However it's not necessary to be a religious person to consider it bad. In my opinion it's not. You just take care of yourself.

MotherofMercies · 05-03-2008, 10:26 PM

I don't see a problem with it. My advice, just be careful and for fuck sake wear protection if you DON'T want to have kids.

Wormboy · 05-03-2008, 10:32 PM

Sex is bad
Sex is a sin
Sins are forgiven
So stick it in

Solumina · 05-03-2008, 11:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wormboy

Sex is bad
Sex is a sin
Sins are forgiven
So stick it in

hehehe that made me giggle

Personally I am damn happy that I'm having premarital sex. A long as you are mature enough to talk about it before you jump in bed with someone than I don't really have a problem with it.

Rammsteinpoet · 05-03-2008, 11:53 PM

Naturally, I'm not sure if there's a right/wrong answer for this, as everyone has their own views on this based on what fits their needs. That being said, here is my view on this:

I personally believe that it's important to build a relationship before you focus on intamacy. There must be love for there to be a strong foundation; once you have that, then you can focus on intamacy.

And as Mother of All Things Odd mentioned, at 15, you shouldn't rush into intamacy, as teenage age are tough enough without the emotional burden of an intamate relationship.

Good luck!

Murasaki eyeliner · 05-04-2008, 02:14 AM

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At 15 you really are too young to have sex .At least wait till your out of high school .teenage years are hard enuf without all the added problems of the heartache you'll suffer if you start having sex too soon
As far as diseases from maritial sex as before you have sex withone a visit to the dr is always called for and if you get an std after marriage someone is not being faithful.can we say alimony?i[/QUOTE]

ok just i clear things up people,[i am not planning to have sex anytime in the near future.for all of the v good reasons above .i just wanted to hear some people's opinions on it

PhenomenalTranquility · 05-04-2008, 08:33 AM

lawl at MotherOfAllThings, you suck.

Bullshit.. for a mother-of-all-things I would expect more from you. You clearly don't know anything about sex so keep your mouth shut please.

I started at 15. Bleck! I was ready, I wanted it, and I fucking -- excuse me, I fuckheavenily enjoyed my first time at that REALLY FAR TOO YOUNG AGE!

Murasaki eyeliner, are you ready and want to have sex? got someone you want to do it with? no? don't do it. yes? do as you feel.

Pfffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffft, wait until you get out of highschool... fucking frigidet nun!

honeythorn · 05-04-2008, 08:39 AM

I laughed far more than I should have at this....