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08-28-2008, 04:27 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: England, South Glos, Bristol
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My "best" friend
I've finally lost it... Me and my Mum took him in when he had no where else to go...
It started off fine, we only asked that he help with the house work and help me look after my dog (he has a tumor in his ankle, vet says he's only got a couple of weeks left  )
But then he started sneaking out to go see his girlfriend (who is a manipulative bitch may I add)
Now we explained to him as long as we kept him, social services wouldn't take him away, but he started coming up with excuses as to why he left instead, not very good ones may I add. "Oh sorry I forgot" or "I didn't see the letter your mum left me" *my Mum leaves him letters telling him to stay and help*
So this morning, I finally lost it, I had been so god damn patient with him, and it doesn't help with my dog having a tumor. I woke up and caught him trying to sneak out one morning, I called him from across the street to come back. I saw the letter on the floor and I know he put it there to make it look like he didn't see it.
Anyway, when he gets back to me, I ask him why he tried to sneak out, and he said "Oh shit sorry I didn't see the letter"
He's just given himself away at this point because I haven't mentioned anything about the letter yet. He isn't known for his IQ level... to be honest he's the dumbest person I've ever met.. and the laziest and the least loyal.
Anyway, I told him not to lie and he kept saying he didn't see it. Then I started to raise my voice and in the end I lost my temper and grabbed him by the shirt and told him he needed to help me. At this point I was actually screaming at him because I was so angry. I think the fact I was stressed and my dog having a tumor probably had some part to play in that. But he kept insisting he didn't see the letter even when I told him he gave himself away.
He's been a completely different person ever since his fucking bitch of a girlfriend came into his life... she's cheated on him lots of times and he just brushes it aside.
In the end I just told him to get the fuck out of my house and chucked his stuff out of the door. He's not staying with me again and as far as I'm concerned he is no longer my friend.
Just as he leaves he has the nerve to say "Some friend you are..."
...That was soooo the wrong thing to say... this is when I got REALLY pissy.
I went straight up to him and told him how we've always been there for him and helped him out... and what has he ever done to help us back? absa-fucking-lutly nothing, I told him he was the most worthless lazy fucking asshole I had ever met in my life... and he just buggered off... I swear if he comes back tonight I'm going to knock him the fuck out.
These have officially been the worst holidays of my entire life... to much shit has happened...
And he's completely fucked my holidays up...
I actually hate that fucker now.
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08-28-2008, 05:39 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bangkok
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Wow...U got a bad one..
I wouldn't let anyone stayed with me,if he isn't my boyfriend
So kind,Your mother is..
The kindness which runs in your family
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I would have scratch his face out ,if I was u ~>w<~
"Some friend you are",He said?.. arrogant bastard
He might not meant to hurt you.
He was just talking to himself,
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08-28-2008, 06:06 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Cumbria, United Kingdom
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You could've been creative and played some games with him....
Or locked the windows and doors; a fire risk I suppose. But still fun, or maybe I'm just too vindictive.
But yeah, he's not worth your time, when his girlfriend dumps him he'll come crawling back to you and want you back though. So watch out! >_>
I hope your dog is okay too; well he won't be okay... But you know what I mean :hugs the dog:
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08-28-2008, 07:02 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: England, South Glos, Bristol
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I don't know what I'm gonna do when he dies He's a beautiful grey hound, seriously. I might take a picture later, need to take as many pictures as I can.
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08-28-2008, 08:48 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2008
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Oh ,I forgot to ask.
What did your mom says about all these ?
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08-28-2008, 09:43 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Heaven and Earth
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Man, that sucks. It's horrible having a bad roommate.
Out of curiosity, though, where did you know this guy from?
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08-28-2008, 09:52 AM
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Mmm... love can blind the goodest of peoples. How old is he? There is a certain age when your hormones spreads out and you don't understand anything anymore. I think he is in his hormonal age, and like I said he could be so blind to don't notice he is hurting you.
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08-28-2008, 10:01 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Cumbria, United Kingdom
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Originally Posted by 3lackrose
Mmm... love can blind the goodest of peoples. How old is he? There is a certain age when your hormones spreads out and you don't understand anything anymore. I think he is in his hormonal age, and like I said he could be so blind to don't notice he is hurting you.
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There are limits. Us teenagers don't totally lose our minds, he's just an idiot.
(Your friend, not 3lackrose.)
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08-28-2008, 10:21 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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Originally Posted by Tam Li Hua
Man, that sucks. It's horrible having a bad roommate.
Out of curiosity, though, where did you know this guy from? |
Childhood friend
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08-28-2008, 10:22 AM
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Oh ,I forgot to ask.
What did your mom says about all these ?
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My Mum feels the same way as me pretty much...
Shes pretty fucking pissed off. Me and her share the same temper you see
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08-28-2008, 10:50 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
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Metabolik: Aww.
For what it's worth, I think you did the right thing; it sounds like he needs a real wake-up call. :/
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08-28-2008, 01:27 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Netherlands
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I'm sorry to hear that you had a hard time...
First of all, what a good friend you are to take care of your friend in the time where he needed help, i hope my friends are half as good as you are...
And it's a fair thing to ask him to help out around the house, but he took everything that you and your mother gave him for granted...
And if he's stupid enough to do that, then he deserves that girlfriend of his...
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08-29-2008, 11:02 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: That little dot in the Middle East , Lebanon
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You sound like a sweet person...don't give a damn about him. He will wind up bringing u trouble soon or later.
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08-29-2008, 12:15 PM
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I think one of the things that pissed me off most was the fact he didn't give a crap about my dog...NO ONE messes with my dogs...
Apart from the cruel force of nature
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08-29-2008, 12:31 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bangkok
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Originally Posted by Metabolik
NO ONE messes with my dogs...
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I understand ur feeling,I lost one already
But this sentence sound funny,LOLz
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08-29-2008, 02:04 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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Ah I dunno where Id be without you guys
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