Question for the ladies.

[Deadmanwalking_05]

When they should be used a pillows *Que rimshot*

[MollyMac]

They aren't big enough to be pillows. Besides, they are full of hate, not milk.

[JCC]

Originally Posted by MollyMac

They aren't big enough to be pillows. Besides, they are full of hate, not milk.

You sound like Lady Macbeth.

[MollyMac]

Out, out damned spot!!!!

[Chameleon]

To me you sound like one of those guys who wants a woman that's needy. The kind of woman who doesn't work, says yes to everything, and has no will or mind of her own. I hope that's not what you're looking for. Those relationships almost always end badly.

On a different note.

Take some time to really think about what you want in a partner. Make a list of things you're willing to compromise on and next time you find someone you'd consider dating compare her to the qualities on the list. You might find that what you want and what you're going after are two completely different things.

[Deadmanwalking_05]

Nope, I'm not looking for that type of woman.

[Underwater Ophelia]

Not consciously.

[Saya]

Didn't you say in the bondage thread that you want a slave both in the bedroom and out?

[Deadmanwalking_05]

Nope.

I said a slave to my command in the bedroom but an equal outside the bedroom.

[Tam Li Hua]

Originally Posted by Deadmanwalking_05

I see your point.

But in a lot of ways no matter what it's seen as either too much or not enough one way or the other which leads guys to think of women as very fickle.

I'm reminded of a song verse:

Women seem wicked when you're alone. -- from the song People are Strange from Echo and the Bunnyman.

I have to wonder what kind of woman you are attracted to, Deadman; are you attracted to the type who have a lot of emotional problems, and who you want to 'fix', or are you related to more emotionally stable womenfolk?

[Tam Li Hua]

Originally Posted by Deadmanwalking_05

Nope.

I said a slave to my command in the bedroom but an equal outside the bedroom.

If you're looking for a BDSM type of relationship...which is what this sounds like...then I think there are online communities to find that kind of thing.

However, let me ask you this: If you found a wonderful, attractive woman, but the only thing she wouldn't compromise on is being ordered around in the bedroom, would you be willing to forgo that in favor of having the better relationship?

[Underwater Ophelia]

Originally Posted by Tam Li Hua

I'm reminded of a song verse:

Women seem wicked when you're alone. -- from the song People are Strange from Echo and the Bunnyman.

First of all.
It's Echo and the BunneyMEN.

Second, that song is by the Doors.

[Tam Li Hua]

Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

First of all.
It's Echo and the BunneyMEN.

Second, that song is by the Doors.

Ahh; I almost typed 'men' instead of 'man', but I wasn't completely sure which it was. XD

Thanks for letting me know who the original singers for that was. I have only heard it done by Echo and by Queen, so I thought it was one of them.

Ah well; spelling and mistaken creative identity aside, my point is still made.

[Deadmanwalking_05]

Well depends on the situation but I wouldn't see it working unless she was a submissive,no matter how attractive.

[Underwater Ophelia]

Originally Posted by Deadmanwalking_05

Well depends on the situation but I wouldn't see it working unless she was a submissive,no matter how attractive.

THERE.
Is your problem.

You're looking for two things: submission and hotness.
You will fail.

[Deadmanwalking_05]

Are you saying there aren't good looking submissives out there?

Or just none in my case (Yeah I get the fact that I look like a monster)

[Underwater Ophelia]

Originally Posted by Deadmanwalking_05

Are you saying there aren't good looking submissives out there?

Or just none in my case (Yeah I get the fact that I look like a monster)

No, you idiot.

I'm saying that you aren't looking for important qualities in a relationship.
If you want a playmate, then by all means, pick the hottest girl that'll let you choke her, and ignore everything else.

If you want a lasting and healthy relationship, submissiveness and hotness can't be your two top priorities.

[Deadmanwalking_05]

Oh.

The qualities I'm looking for are as follows.

She has to have a good sense of humor.
She would need to be loyal.
A good listener.
Be willing to respect as well as be respected (Above all else,because if there isn't any respect between the two of us it just won't work,found that out the hard way.)
She would need to like Horror films.
Be able to tolerate Viking Metal,and thrash along with punk.
She would need be able to stand my stubborness from time to time.

And last but Not least she would need to have a mind of her own and a strong will (If I wanted a parrot I would go to the pet store)

Those are in fact what I'm looking for in a woman. (No B.S. not trying to make myself look good,just being honest)

[MegearaErotica]

You can't find a woman like that? Where are you looking, the red light district?

[Noumi]

Originally Posted by Deadmanwalking_05

Why do women hate guys that bust their asses to provide for them,protect them,and go through so much hell for them?

Because we lose interest when we see some guys acting like that. In my case I don´t like boys too needy :/

[Deadmanwalking_05]

I actually stray away from those that are thought of as modern day "soiled doves"

[Deadmanwalking_05]

Originally Posted by Noumi

Because we lose interest when we see some guys acting like that. In my case I don´t like boys too needy :/

What the fuck?

That came out of left field.


What's wrong with a guy that wants to be helpful as well as a good BF/husband?

[Saya]

Originally Posted by Deadmanwalking_05

What the fuck?

That came out of left field.


What's wrong with a guy that wants to be helpful as well as a good BF/husband?

Girls just wanna have fun.

No, seriously though. I don't know any young girls looking for husband material or even sugar daddies. Most just want fun and excitement, and want someone who can bring them that.

[Deadmanwalking_05]

I'm talking about women not girls,the little girls need to brush their teeth,and go watch cartoons, this ride is for adults only.

[Solumina]

Most women still want to have fun, it is just a different kind of fun