Rant Thread II

[Haejin]

Originally Posted by Apathy's_Child

This is what happens in my family if you aren't married by 23: you become everybody's fucking babysitter, gossip dump, filler-in and general grunt. I'm set that I'm not fucking having this one right now, but I just know it's gonna cause drama if he pulls any more shit and my mother tries to kick him onto me.

Ugh put your foot down and say no.

[in.the.moon]

Today was supposed to be a very exciting, nice day. I had my boob appointment which I had been looking forward for months now. Alas, when I came home my boyfriend was having a fit, and it spiraled down from there,,ending in me knocking his sister's door so she could see something (not knowing she was sleeping, it was barely 8:30) and him getting pissed off he pushed me when I was coming back in so hard that I fell and she and someone else saw me. Like, What the fuck is your problem?

The only reason that I came in the room without calming down first is because the baby was in the room crying. That led to me flipping out on him...

whatever....This was supposed to be a nice awesome day for me but it ended being a fucked up day, where my boyfriend who I'm always supportive of, ended up being completely insensitive about my boobs and just a douche-bag for no reason. Is it MY fault the baby threw up on him and the blanket!!!!!!!!??

NO, so he had no reason to take his anger out on me

But yeah, so much for the good day I was hoping for

[Acharis]

Originally Posted by in.the.moon

he pushed me when I was coming back in so hard that I fell

Jeez, that's not ok. If I were you I'd be telling someone about this, and possibly getting out of there.

[MissCheyenne]

My bloods came back fine which is nice. Since the doctor can't find a serious underlying cause, he's putting my symptoms down to stress and depression. I've got tablets for the headaches and I have to go back in a month so the doctor can monitor how I'm doing. I'm glad I don't have any serious physical conditions but I do wish the headaches would just .....go away.

[in.the.moon]

Originally Posted by Acharis

Jeez, that's not ok. If I were you I'd be telling someone about this, and possibly getting out of there.

Both of us act like that with each other, but yea you are right. We do need to be careful so it doesn't get out of hand one day

[Solumina]

Moon that really does not sound like a healthy relationship. Y'all need to cut that shit out and get some couples counseling or something.

[Darcnyss]

So the event I was planning for this weekend (probably the biggest goth event I ever planned, 5 DJs, 4 gothic stalls, the launch of a brand new cocktail and very many giveaways) got cancelled due to the club we were going to have it at not being open anymore. Apparently the landlord changed the locks on the venue.
Months of planning down the drain.
*Sigh*

[CuckooTuli]

Originally Posted by Apathy's_Child

My mother is threatening to send my dick little brother to live with me to "straighten out". Fuck me if I could straighten out a paper clip right now. I'd just end up kicking his ass and giving him booze to stop him going out for coke and leave him a battered, bruised alcoholic who's STILL a dick, because I really cannot be assed to get into psychologizing his dickishness right now. I know I sound like an asshole, but I've sunk more time and energy into that kid than anyone, and until he actually WANTS to stop acting like a total cunt I don't see what everyone else expects me to do with him.

This is what happens in my family if you aren't married by 23: you become everybody's fucking babysitter, gossip dump, filler-in and general grunt. I'm set that I'm not fucking having this one right now, but I just know it's gonna cause drama if he pulls any more shit and my mother tries to kick him onto me.

Oh HELL no. At this point, it's not just about what you're willing to do for him (although frankly, I think you've done plenty already considering that he's your brother and not your fucking kid); it's about the sheer imposition. Tell them you also have a roommate to consider who wouldn't appreciate some coked-up 17 yr old crazying up the place that he's paying to live in too, and who could probably live without half his shit being stolen every time he pops out. Even if you weren't already having a crappy time with the whole break-up thing at the moment, this is just too much to ask.

[Versus]

I've almost died 3 times today, and I haven't even eaten lunch yet. What the shit is going on?

[Haejin]

Dead inside my bf of 4 years just said were over

[Versus]

Originally Posted by Haejin

Dead inside my bf of 4 years just said were over

That's rough. I'm sorry to hear that. If you want to rant, you can PM me and such.

[Haejin]

I honestly don't know what to think at the moment... It's been snowballing for a while now but I've been trying my hardest to make it work. I want to think that he'll change his mind but he's acting completely serious about it. Which is killing me because he's been my everything. And we just got our own place together... I feel like everything is shattering around me. I can't think straight I feel sick

[Renatus]

Originally Posted by Haejin

I honestly don't know what to think at the moment... It's been snowballing for a while now but I've been trying my hardest to make it work. I want to think that he'll change his mind but he's acting completely serious about it. Which is killing me because he's been my everything. And we just got our own place together... I feel like everything is shattering around me. I can't think straight I feel sick

*hugs tight* Reminds me of two years ago when I lost my gf of two years. It hit me hard too, I ended up dropping out of college because I just couldn't muster up the will power to get up and go to class. We had such dreams together. You'll make it through believe me, but you must also know this won't be easy at all. If you need someone to talk to just tell me, and I'll add you on msn or whatever you use for instant messaging.

[Saya]

Jin, you're awesome and you'll get through this. Break ups suck so bad though and I'm so sorry, but at the same time, I know you're going to rise above it.

[Solumina]

It will hurt for a while Jin but it will get better. Sorry things ended like this, especially after you guys just got your own place, that's rough. PM me if you need someone to talk to or anything.

Originally Posted by Versus

I've almost died 3 times today, and I haven't even eaten lunch yet. What the shit is going on?

Are you okay?

[Versus]

Originally Posted by Solumina

Are you okay?

I'm fine. Shitty drivers are shitty.

[MissCheyenne]

I'm sorry Jin, I hope you'll be ok with some time.

Damn Versus, bitchslap those shitty drivers.

My rant: I fell down the stairs and I've banged myself up pretty bad. Nothing serious, just bruises and a nosebleed but it hurts like hell.

[Solumina]

Boo I have a full sized spare tire but right now it does me no good as Jake never got around to fixing the small puncture in it (a while ago I punctured a tire, swapped that for the spare, I don't just randomly have a punctured spare). I blame Jake for this as I physically cannot get the spare out of the car without hurting myself due to it being in a well in the back of the car that happens to be in such a way that I can't get any meaningful leverage. Thankfully I did not have a blowout or anything, I just managed to get another small puncture but still, I am not pleased.

[Haejin]

well we cried and made up but it's gonna take some time to recoop we said some nasty things to eachother. . . i feel like im in one of those stupid highschool relationships.

[Acharis]

Originally Posted by CuckooTuli

Tell them you also have a roommate to consider who wouldn't appreciate some coked-up 17 yr old crazying up the place that he's paying to live in too, and who could probably live without half his shit being stolen every time he pops out. Even if you weren't already having a crappy time with the whole break-up thing at the moment, this is just too much to ask.

This. I had a flatmate pretty much the same (only difference = drunkass/weed smoking 19 year old crazying up the place) and locking your bedroom door every time you need to visit the can gets old fast. So does trying to predict the unpredictable.
I'd never do that again, so I'd decline to babysit and let trained staff be paid to smack him into line.

I hope you're feeling better AC, breakups always suck. My last one actually made me feel a bit sick for a month or two.

I hope things go well from there Jin.

Originally Posted by Versus

I've almost died 3 times today, and I haven't even eaten lunch yet. What the shit is going on?

Assholes! Don't they know you're meant to get a last meal?
But seriously, stay safe man.

Originally Posted by MissCheyenne

My rant: I fell down the stairs and I've banged myself up pretty bad. Nothing serious, just bruises and a nosebleed but it hurts like hell.

Ouch. I managed to trip over something and get a tiny cut slightly under my toenail.


As for me, I have a combination of tonsillitis and bronchitis! Yummy.
I'm going to lie on the couch and plague the internet people.

[in.the.moon]

Originally Posted by Solumina

Moon that really does not sound like a healthy relationship. Y'all need to cut that shit out and get some couples counseling or something.

I totally agree with you. Couple's counseling is next in our agenda

[Solumina]

Coworker bought me a coke today, it was the first time I've had one in quite a while and now I feel really sluggish and crappy.

Originally Posted by in.the.moon

I totally agree with you. Couple's counseling is next in our agenda

Good! A lot of people can be resistant to the idea of counseling so the fact that you guys are planning to do it is a good sign. I hope it works out for you.

[Saya]

Dad got in touch with me today to tell me that my grandfather has stage 3 colorectal cancer. I don't think my aunt (dad's sister) knows, mom was talking to her last night and she seemed best kind and didn't mention anything. I told my sister about it and she told mom, and now mom wants to call either my aunt or her daughter (I talk to her pretty often, she also hasn't said a thing to me and seemed to be best kind) and tell them. I hate family drama.

[Spooky Spencer]

Originally Posted by Saya

... my grandfather has stage 3 colorectal cancer.

That sucks. I hate hospitals, especially if you're bedridden.

How old is your grandfather?

[Saya]

77. I'm thinking this means its probably going to be the end, and not sure how to go about things. Maybe he'll want to make up before he goes? But I don't know how to go about it.