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02-18-2006, 06:21 PM
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Yeah, this guy was the epitome of hung like a hamster fucks like a gerbil.
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02-18-2006, 06:38 PM
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#1327
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Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Right Here
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It's a good thing he finally found someone who could appreciate his lack of Girth and Technique..
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02-18-2006, 06:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Empty_Purple_Stars
It's a good thing he finally found someone who could appreciate his lack of Girth and Technique..
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AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
Woman, I love you.
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02-18-2006, 09:10 PM
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#1329
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Originally Posted by Empty_Purple_Stars
It's a good thing he finally found someone who could appreciate his lack of Girth and Technique..
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It looks to me like his technique could still use some improvement.
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02-19-2006, 04:00 AM
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#1330
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Behind you ... (well, if your back's to London)
Posts: 1,001
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Originally Posted by eyesofatragedy
Well lets remember you can't get to England in a row boat.
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*snickers* I'm'a have to steal that one and use it. I already live in England, so it'll be even more insulting.
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A dream is just a nightmare with lipstick ~ Toni Morrison
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02-19-2006, 04:08 AM
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#1331
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Sanctropolis, Bitchland USA
Posts: 2,459
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So, question to the male residents...
How does a boy get past the quick service problem?
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Your blatant disregard and lack of respect for the members here pisses me off. You think that just because Sanctus likes you for some reason(?) , that you can act like a bastard and get absolutely no comeuppance? Fuck you dickwad!
-Never mistake my tolerance for fucking approval.... never.
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02-19-2006, 01:16 PM
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#1332
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Lots and lots of foreplay for her. Then take it slow. Think about non-sexually related things.
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02-19-2006, 01:57 PM
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#1333
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Originally Posted by Sanctus Dei
So, question to the male residents...
How does a boy get past the quick service problem?
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The official answer is probably Kegel excercises.
When I first started I wasn't king of stamina either. thankfully I learned quickly. It's mostly psychological. If he's overly excited then he'll be shooting before his tighty whities hit the floor. The first thing I taught myself when I was young was how to keep going after cumming. I can't do it much anymore because I've changed a lot but back then I could only go a few minutes before popping but I wouldn't stop. I'd keep going till I came again.
Another thing that helps is foreplay. Lots of mouth and hand action, bringing him close and then backing off, should numb him a bit to the point where he can go a bit longer. It should also help him learn to know when he's about to finish and he can practice holding it back. There will be times that he'll fail and things might end before they begin, so to speak, but over time he'll improve his control (hopefully).
Lastly, I'd recommend getting him to cum - a lot. When he comes he's working out that muscle which will help him in the long run. Also the more he finishes the harder he has to work to ... reload (for lack of a better word).
Over time and lots of practice I gained better control and that control translated into better and better orgasms. I learned control very quickly long ago because I was very self concious about it. It really bummed me out. I can go as long as she needs me to now. In fact every once in a while it's hard for me to cum at all because I've gone for too long. Well - that's not entirely true - since I'm not Superman and sex is a very personal and dynamic experience, there are times that she does something just right which makes me lose control. It's a bit frustrating because things didn't go "according to plan" but the extra intensity of being out of control and at her mercy makes it oh so worth it.
I feel sorry for guys that suffer from disfunction. I feel even more sorry for the guys that don't even try to improve themselves or even worse, lie to themselves and their partners about what a stud they are. I feel most sorry, though, for the girls that have to endure the terrible sex and pretend to like it to save their partners tiny male ego.
I just want to snatch those poor girls up and show them personally what sex can be so they don't have to suffer anymore. Yes ladies, I would do you because I care about your sexual happiness. I'm selfless that way  Don't get me wrong, I'm not thinking I'm teh sex leetness of the Earth but I'm definately confident I'm on the right track.
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02-19-2006, 11:12 PM
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#1334
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Sanctropolis, Bitchland USA
Posts: 2,459
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It's odd, I'm glad for it when we don't have much time and I want to please him... the act is short and sweet and he really enjoys it... but then there are the times I want a little enjoyment as well, for the most part he's great... but... he can't get hardcore rough with me in that wickedly lustful way, his control suffers early and he has to frequently pause. I'll give him the suggestions you gave Manimal.. and I'll look into the desensitizer Xng.. thanks guys!!
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Your blatant disregard and lack of respect for the members here pisses me off. You think that just because Sanctus likes you for some reason(?) , that you can act like a bastard and get absolutely no comeuppance? Fuck you dickwad!
-Never mistake my tolerance for fucking approval.... never.
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02-20-2006, 07:46 AM
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#1335
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Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: I own Pitseleh!!
Posts: 3,747
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Originally Posted by Manimal
I feel sorry for guys that suffer from Disfunction.
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BWAHAHAHAHAAAA!!!
*wicked grin*
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Originally Posted by Manimal
Yes ladies, I would do you because I care about your sexual happiness. I'm selfless that way |
And I'd do 'em for the screams. 
Sexual technique is very important! I seem to have a knack for finding men that know what they're doing, though. Just remember that practice makes perfect.
So practice til you cream...er, scream.
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02-20-2006, 08:22 AM
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#1336
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 503
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Originally Posted by Sanctus Dei
...but then there are the times I want a little enjoyment as well, for the most part he's great... but... he can't get hardcore rough with me in that wickedly lustful way, his control suffers early and he has to frequently pause.
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I know what you mean, Sanctus - my boyfriend is gorgeous and sexy, but sometimes I wish he could just erm... gimme a good seeing to is the best way to put it (*grin*) without having to pause and calm down quite so often. Slow sex doesn't really do it for me - I like it rough! ;-D
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02-20-2006, 08:46 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 503
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Originally Posted by Xnguela
I think a lot of women have that problem, myself included. But last time we used the desensitizer, it worked really really well.
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I'd love to try it but... I know he'd get really upset and moody if I brought it up.
(No pun intended by the way!) ;-)
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"Life is like a chronic illness, and finding something interesting to do is a kind of long-term cure."
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02-20-2006, 08:54 AM
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#1338
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 503
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*Grin* yup, that might persuade him! Right, I'm off to Ann Summers...
*runs off to buy some supplies*
*"ooh, chocolate dick lick! Yum!!"*
:-D
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"Life is like a chronic illness, and finding something interesting to do is a kind of long-term cure."
~ Wei Hui
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02-20-2006, 10:12 AM
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#1339
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Behind you ... (well, if your back's to London)
Posts: 1,001
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Originally Posted by Deviant Kitten
I'd love to try it but... I know he'd get really upset and moody if I brought it up.
(No pun intended by the way!) ;-)
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Just buy some tube'o'lube, empty it out and put the desensitiser in the container. Pretend it's something for both of you!
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The meek shall inherit the earth. Just as soon as the rest of us have finished with it.
A dream is just a nightmare with lipstick ~ Toni Morrison
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02-20-2006, 10:18 AM
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#1340
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Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Right Here
Posts: 3,442
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Originally Posted by Manimal
Yes ladies, I would do you because I care about your sexual happiness. I'm selfless that way Don't get me wrong, I'm not thinking I'm teh sex leetness of the Earth but I'm definately confident I'm on the right track. |
Awwwww...
That's my Wht. Boi.
He's a Giver, that one..
* Beams*
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02-20-2006, 11:35 AM
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#1341
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 503
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Originally Posted by Wise Child
Just buy some tube'o'lube, empty it out and put the desensitiser in the container. Pretend it's something for both of you! |
Could be worth a try... but I'd have to change my name to Devious Kitten! *wink*
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"Life is like a chronic illness, and finding something interesting to do is a kind of long-term cure."
~ Wei Hui
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02-20-2006, 07:55 PM
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#1342
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Originally Posted by Deviant Kitten
I know what you mean, Sanctus - my boyfriend is gorgeous and sexy, but sometimes I wish he could just erm... gimme a good seeing to is the best way to put it (*grin*) without having to pause and calm down quite so often. Slow sex doesn't really do it for me - I like it rough! ;-D
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It's ok to pause now and again. There are extremes of course but even the Manimal has to slow down lest his poor heart (or occasionally something else) explodes. It's usually an excellent opportunity to roll her over and change the view so to speak. Especially if it's really warm in the room. My cock is all "go" for the distance but the rest of my body is overheating and starts to shut down so slowdown breaks are a necessity.
Think of it as running in place or sprinting or any other hard athletic activity. At first it's rigorous theraputic fun but then it becomes work. Sure you could push yourself and keep going but it's not the Olympics - it's supposed to be sensuality. Slow down, catch your breath, and then make her cry some more
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02-21-2006, 12:48 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 503
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Hi Manimal... yeah, sometimes I worry that I'm too demanding actually! I've always been a very sexual person and sometimes I want things a bit rougher than he's used to. He's 10 years older than me so he's a lot more experienced, but often it's me asking to take things further. I'm a little bit kinky I suppose - not rubber masks kinky, more like spanking and tickling kinky! ;-D
*Edited for spelling!*
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"Life is like a chronic illness, and finding something interesting to do is a kind of long-term cure."
~ Wei Hui
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02-21-2006, 05:41 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Posts: 3,793
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Originally Posted by Santarea
Is there something wrong with mixing male stamina with anal sex?
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oh, good god no! anal sex and stamina are two of my favorite things.
wanna practice?
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"How many times can I say I'm not sorry? And how many ways can I show I don't care?" - Type O Negative
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02-21-2006, 07:46 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 503
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Those links are helpful, thanks Edible. Cool SN by the way! :-D
Oh, and there's definitely nothing wrong with mixing any kind of stamina and anal sex *dirty grin*
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"Life is like a chronic illness, and finding something interesting to do is a kind of long-term cure."
~ Wei Hui
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02-21-2006, 07:50 AM
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#1347
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Posts: 3,793
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you're welcome.
i remember your pic and how utterly beautiful you are. putting that together with anal sex and... oops. i came.
where did i put those links?
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"How many times can I say I'm not sorry? And how many ways can I show I don't care?" - Type O Negative
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02-21-2006, 07:52 AM
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#1348
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 503
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Eep! *blushes*
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"Life is like a chronic illness, and finding something interesting to do is a kind of long-term cure."
~ Wei Hui
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02-21-2006, 07:54 AM
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#1349
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Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: I own Pitseleh!!
Posts: 3,747
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Originally Posted by edible_eye
oh, good god no! anal sex and stamina are two of my favorite things.
wanna practice?
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Um, Yes!
God!
And,
OH GAWD YES!!!!
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02-21-2006, 08:00 AM
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#1350
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 503
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Can I play too? *bats eyelashes at Wolfie* You're priddy!
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"Life is like a chronic illness, and finding something interesting to do is a kind of long-term cure."
~ Wei Hui
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