I hate to bitch...

[Tha Duckman]

I knew a guy once, got sick of life so he bought a motorbike. The idea was he would get so far away that nobody knew him and he would be different person. He got twenty minutes up the road and slid into oncoming traffic.

He gets laid more than I do.

[Lolly PopMuzik]

If you can, get to a school counselor. Chances are, they can advise you with local apartments, financial aid or refer you to some services.

I've been there in my last 2 years of high school and I've never been happier to get out of there.

[HumanePain]

Oh Kerri, so sorry to hear it. Can you go hide at Ophelia's?
:feels helpless to do anything protective:

[Tha Duckman]

Neither of those comments was as good as mine.

[gothicusmaximus]

Originally Posted by badteccy

Seriously though, is it just me, or do most threads on g.net lately turn into a bunch of pointless posts?
Ugh, where's Jillian when ya need him?

It's not just you.
Bella Sophia, I rarely find myself forced to make a request of this nature, as I'm the sort of person who generally reacts to the stupid with amusement rather than irritation, but please, shut the fuck up. You're so unbelievably impudent that you make Stormtrooper's incessant peddling of fake beer seem as agreeable as a guy giving out real beer, so gratingly idiotic that Signe's masturbatory self-deprecation and death threats are the Oedipus Cycle next to your inane ramblings, and just so generally incapable of articulating a thought such that it can be recieved by mature, intelligent individuals with any response but outright dismissal that I MISS DARKPRAYER. I can honestly say that, in my opinion, your presence here has caused the overall quality of these forums to be diminished, and gnet wasn't exactly a congregation of Rhodes Scholars to begin with.
Do you realize that punctuating every sentence with LOL is not an appropriate way to communicate with people on a 'literary' site? Do you realize that that

No, I"m not. Honestly, I don't even know what this thread is about. *cannot see badteccy's posts*

Is actually the same number of characters as the infinitely more respectable:

No, I'm not. Honestly, I don't even know what this thread is about. I cannot see badteccy's posts.

Badteccy made this thread to complain about an unfortunate circumstance which has beset her. You're not under any obligation to offer support, but the least you can do avoid being a little shit is refrain from spamming the topic with the same insipid shit with which you spam every topic. Please gb2Gaia. I beseech you.

[MollyMac]

Holy fuck... what a load of cuntzillas.

Teccy- I am sorry about the shot flung on your thread, save for Duck, who I agree is actually funny enough to pull it off. Ahem.

All the same, is there someone local you can talk to- clergy of school counseloer or even a sliding-scale non-school counseling service? Al-Anon or Alateen?

Is there just someone there wher eyou can run away and escape for coffee with, just for a few hours a respite until your nerves settle down?

[HumanePain]

Kerri?



What happened, did he leave you alone? Did he leave? I hope you are not shaking anymore.

[Tam Li Hua]

Originally Posted by badteccy

Seriously though, is it just me, or do most threads on g.net lately turn into a bunch of pointless posts?
Ugh, where's Jillian when ya need him?

It's not just you.

I've found most of the posters on G-net to be rather...dissatisfying.

This is why I gravitate more to Goth.net than here.

Though, there -is- more activity here on a daily basis, so it gives me something to do. *shrug*

On the other end, I'm sorry you have to deal with that kind of crap from your family. I know what that's like, and it ain't fun.

Just remember, when you turn 18 [if you aren't 18 or older already], you get to leave and make your own life, completely separate from him/them.

*hug*

[Tam Li Hua]

Ack, just read where you're 18 and low on funds. x_x;; Sorry about that.

I think moving in with friends and doing chores or what-not might not be a bad idea. I've done that before when I just couldn't take Life at home any more, and am ever grateful to them for it.

You'll be in my thoughts regarding your situation..

[Tha Duckman]

The moral of the story is, I'm funnier than you all.

[DepthsofSpace]

Kerri, I have to agree that leaving, might be your best option. Obviously, there are financial and educational concerns to contend with, but most anything seems better that physical and mental abuse.

Originally Posted by gothicusmaximus

Bella Sophia, I rarely find myself forced to make a request of this nature, as I'm the sort of person who generally reacts to the stupid with amusement rather than irritation, but please, shut the fuck up. You're so unbelievably impudent that you make Stormtrooper's incessant peddling of fake beer seem as agreeable as a guy giving out real beer, so gratingly idiotic that Signe's masturbatory self-deprecation and death threats are the Oedipus Cycle next to your inane ramblings, and just so generally incapable of articulating a thought such that it can be recieved by mature, intelligent individuals with any response but outright dismissal that I MISS DARKPRAYER. I can honestly say that, in my opinion, your presence here has caused the overall quality of these forums to be diminished, and gnet wasn't exactly a congregation of Rhodes Scholars to begin with.
Do you realize that punctuating every sentence with LOL is not an appropriate way to communicate with people on a 'literary' site?

Please gb2Gaia. I beseech you.

I'm not sure if it was the Dark Prayer remark, the run-on sentence (semi-colons for the win, by the way -_-) or the telling her to go back to Gaia (From hell, I suppose?), but I am just now capable of typing after minutes of laughter. No offense, Bela.

Reading their thread start to finish, you see how the snowball got started and it just tumbled from there. Ouch.


And on Goth.net... It sorta bothered me that in their definition of 'goth' there wasn't any mention of music, until Joy Division and Bauhaus were mentioned, but even then, it was a passing remark.

[Breathless Horror]

Badteccy, I'm sorry that you have to deal with that kind of shit. I can only imagine what it must be like to be afraid of your father. I think I'm also disgusted that someone could be some insensitive as to spam ANY thread in the whining section. I really hope things get better for you. I'm not the praying sort, but I'll keep you in my thoughts and heart.

[bleedingheart344]

Teccy, I send my regards. Please take care of yourself. *hugs* As for Bella Sophia, I agree with everything Gothius said. At least have the decency to post in a manner that will show you're decently educated, if you even are.

[Duane]

That's horrible, my condolences, Badteccy. I can't say I've been through the same thing, but I hope you come out of this fine.

[Tha Duckman]

Hey, it's fucked up that y'all are ganging up on Bella, man. Seeing as I always go for the under dog, and for some reason I find her some what entertaining, I'm gonna stick for her.

[Crying_Crimson_Tears]

Badteccy, despite our arguments in the past and such I do hope all things work out well for you. My parents did this sort of thing when I was younger so I sort of know what you're going through.

Try to find a close friend or relative that'll help you out and see if you can seek refuge there.

[Tha Duckman]

Man, does anyone else wonder how Crimson Emo Girly gets through it all, with all these super duper problems she seems to have? For such a little girl, she seems to have gone through EVERYTHING.

[MollyMac]

Now... THAT was funny.

[Tha Duckman]

I'm fucking hilarious.

[badteccy]

Thanks for all the kind comments. My dad doesn't live with us right now, but I do plan on moving out eventually (if I get accepted into UArts next fall, then that dream will come true). Right now I'm just trying to stay focused on school (I have 6 fucking classes this sem, and I gotta keep my 3.7 GPA up or get it to a 4.0) and work. I think I'm gonna be smoking a lot more cigarettes though.

[dreamydancer]

I think you deserve to bitch. It's real drama unlike some dumbasses bitching about petty bullshit. "Oh, my boyfriend broke up with me." "The teacher I hate gave me C." "Some asswipe on myspace rejected my friend request." Blah, blah, blah, blah.

[Tam Li Hua]

Originally Posted by dreamydancer

I think you deserve to bitch. It's real drama unlike some dumbasses bitching about petty bullshit. "Oh, my boyfriend broke up with me." "The teacher I hate gave me C." "Some asswipe on myspace rejected my friend request." Blah, blah, blah, blah.

Seconded.

I would rather hear about someone's real-life difficulties than the more trivial tripe that's often discussed instead..

[MollyMac]

I'd rather Teccy had no real life difficulty to bitch about, and that her worst problem was being called Emo or some lame shit.

[Apathy's_Child]

Good luck with the school stuff, it seems like the best option. Hope you get in.

[TopHaggardDoll]

Thankfully Bella has shut the fuck up now. Way to be a dick, Bella ¬_¬.

You're fully within your right to let it all out Teccy. You should aswell, you're going through a distressing time and I really feel for you and anyone in this thread who has to be subjected to anything like this.

What makes it even worse is it will be your mother that will have to leave him and her self esteem has probably been beaten to the ground that she is going to find it hard to say to him "get out".

Are there any relatives you and your mum could stay with for awhile!? I think you two need a serious break from this and hopefully your mum will see she doesn't deserve this and neither do you.

I am hoping that your mother finds the strength to leave him.

"Don't let the bastards grind you down."