Have a crush one on my best friends girlfriends :(

Metabolik · 12-07-2007, 01:37 PM

God damnit, i've had a crush on this girl for over a year and half now, I've tried everything to stop liking her that way, i've tried not talking to her, I feel really guilty, because I told everyone I don't fancy her any more...
But believe me when I say that all I want is the bst for those two...
I can't help but feel really jealous as well though...Dx Dx Dx

Beneath the Shadows · 12-07-2007, 02:17 PM

I know the feeling. Sadly, there's not really much you can do about it, unless you're willing to move three thousand miles away and cut all contact.

Metabolik · 12-07-2007, 02:22 PM

I think it's best if no-one finds out.

Noumi · 12-07-2007, 05:21 PM

Forget about her, have a crush on me

, LOL kidding

Metabolik · 12-08-2007, 11:00 AM

Perhaps Pikachu will have a crush on you...

Mon Coeur Noir · 12-08-2007, 12:15 PM

Perhaps sooner or later your heart will become bored of the pain that being in love with her brings, and you will just fall out of love. It's happened to me a million times before. It can take a long time though. Once took me ten years.

Metabolik · 12-08-2007, 01:42 PM

I hate love

Methadrine · 12-08-2007, 01:59 PM

When on the wrong side of love, it's awful.

Metabolik · 12-08-2007, 02:17 PM

I'm almost as angry as pikachu here.

Duane · 12-08-2007, 02:57 PM

I've been there, it's not a good feeling having feelings for a woman who's already taken.

Alexander IV · 12-08-2007, 04:45 PM

dont worry I had the same problem only with my best friends boyfriend
I was so in love
I could hardly stand it, but he didnt feel the same about me and apparently he didnt feel the same about her either because he dumped her in less than a month. to put it bluntly she was crushed.
So me and here were in the same boat.
And strangly our relationship got alot stronger

But Ill tell you what my friends told me: One day your going to look back on this and smile, And thank whatever higher power you believe in . Because you didnt get saddled with a loser. while your in your lovers embrace.

Methadrine · 12-08-2007, 04:50 PM

I saved a girl from a near-to rapist once and made her mine. Only time I actively went after someone's girlfriend.

Metabolik · 12-09-2007, 10:01 AM

I envy you sir.

Sir Canvas Corpsey · 12-14-2007, 06:28 PM

Seeing this I have to vent as well! goddamnit they're always taken and then by someone you know as well, and then, and I don't know about the rest of you.

You want the best for them but a little tiny part of you hopes they'll break up and you'll get them, then you feel sick for even thinking that for a split second...worse, you have to spend the night with them, and end up all gloomy, and everyone's worrying about you, and then the girlfriend finds out you want her boy and she's surprisingly calm and then you just feel more rotten, and eventually put on a facade of feeling good to stop the person you have a crush on from worrying...

The only bad part of last night's party... ;_;

DepthsofSpace · 12-14-2007, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Metabolik

God damnit, i've had a crush on this girl for over a year and half now, I've tried everything to stop liking her that way, i've tried not talking to her, I feel really guilty, because I told everyone I don't fancy her any more...
But believe me when I say that all I want is the bst for those two...
I can't help but feel really jealous as well though...Dx Dx Dx

In the good old days, gentlemen settle these issues 'on the field of honour (where the ground is hard').

Nowdays, we just have to set back and try to work through it.

It does suck. I have sort of been there. Former quasi-girlfriend, and watching her date three other guys over the last few years. We are still good friends, but it's wierd her talking about the others.

Underwater Ophelia · 12-14-2007, 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Metabolik

I hate love

NEVER! What is life without romance?!

Sir Canvas Corpsey · 12-14-2007, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

NEVER! What is life without romance?!

Eerily peaceful under the condition that you are made to forget what those feelings ever were

DepthsofSpace · 12-14-2007, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

NEVER! What is life without romance?!

Funny... For a while, I spoke what he said, yet believed what you said.

Now, I yearn for love, though despise it for its elusive nature.

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Originally Posted by Sir Canvas Corpsey

Eerily peaceful under the condition that you are made to forget what those feelings ever were

Agreed, yet somehow.. Empty.

Bete Noire · 12-15-2007, 01:58 AM

Ahh that's a shitty situation Metabolik.

I can sympathise pretty well.

I like a girl, and my best friend knows this, and two days ago I find out they've been together for a week, despite him knowing how i feel.

So now I have to try and get over her.

Fun fun fun.

Mir · 12-15-2007, 02:35 AM

All the girls I seem to fall for are already taken. Either by friends or strangers but I still DO fancy them. I'd never make a move on them though.

Get a hobby dude. Do something constructive to get your mind off of it.

XBLEEDINGXMUFFINZX · 12-29-2007, 04:31 PM

WOW THATS REALLY WEIRD
SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME
BUT I LIKE MY BEST FREIND'S BOYFRIEND
ITS LIKE YOU WANT TO STAY AWAY FROM THEM BUT YOU CANT BECAUSE WHEN YOU DO, YOU CANT LIVE WITHOUT THEM. WHEN YOU ARE NEAR THE PERSON, ITS LIKE YOU SO WANT TO KILL THE PERSON THEY R WITH, EVEN IF THEY ARE YOUR BEST FRIEND.
DUDE, I TOTALLY GET IT
WONDER IF THIS HAPPENS TO A WHOLE LOT OF PEOPLE...
NOW I AM TRYING THE "LETS BE FRIENDS" ATTEMPT BUT SO FAR, ITS NOT WORKING.
OH WELL
NOW TO "PLAN Z"