Trust

[Catch]

I think people are flawed because they trust other people too much. Talking to a gothic a long time ago, they said that Everyone thinks that gothics are totally awesome and everyone loves gothics.

Fact is, there are people out there who just want to beat the crap out of gothics. There are also people who just lust gothics but don't really care about what is best for them.

To a lot of people you are only an object and that includes, "Goths." You can't just trust everyone, because you don't know what they want from you. A lot of people just want to use gothics.

Back in the day, Goths all carried knives to protect their virtue and them selves. I know plenty of guys that were harassed by men, saying they were gay. They had to defend themselves. There are also women that have been date ***** and other because all the guy really wanted was sex.

Stop trusting people so damn much. They'll probably say you had sex with them or you were a whimp and got bloodied, but at least you know what happened and can protect your dignity.

This is something to really think about. I'm really tired of all the boo who stories about someone doing something.

Personally, I have an aweful reputation, but I know who I have and have not slept with. I also know my friends and maybe it seems weak sometimes relying on people who have earned my trust. It is still way better than the alternatives.

Stop being morons and trusting people who don't deserve it. Otherwise, you'll end up on the street, a hooker or dead. Got it!!!

[tickingstitch]

Trust good song by the cure

Why do you have an awful reputation?

[Stormtrooper of Death]

Hmmmmmm, this topic does make me think.

[tickingstitch]

Think about what? Clouds?

[Stormtrooper of Death]

Just thinking. I never think about clouds. What's the point, they're just lazy bastards.

[Catch]

Originally Posted by tickingstitch

Trust good song by the cure

Why do you have an awful reputation?

Men think I'm a slut, so they approach me thinking I'm easy. That's one of my turn offs. They are just lazy, thinking that a good **ck is all I need. Ya, I was ***** when I was younger and pretty much everyone just accepts I had a one night stand for my first time.

I don't date anymore, because there is no point. All men seem to have is a penis. It's lame and boring. Other guys I might like to date won't date me. So it's really sucky all around.

The point is though, there was another girl I know through gaming. She likes all kinds of gaming, but she's hot and gothic. I don't know for sure, she was probably abused and she went through the I'm hotter than you phase and now she dress all frumpy and takes an attitude with anyone who talks to her. She reminds me of me. Just a hot nerd.

It just sucks that it happens at all.

Other people I've known trust the wrong people. All of their friends say stay away from them. They say I know better than you, then they are living on the streets, then they are turning tricks.

Yep, Unconditional Trust is the root of all evil and the path to ruin in paved in good intentions.

[Stormtrooper of Death]

I'm glad I'm not like most men then. I think with me brain! As the old saying goes "Think with your head, not your head."

[Catch]

That is a good saying.

[tickingstitch]

I wouldnt swear off dating forever. Thats probably not the right solution and their are plenty of guys who are worth more then just their penis, you are doing exactly what you are saying you hate about guys. Men are wonderful creatures. Their silly ways. Haha.

This is the truth about growing up. Sex happens. Ive had a one night stand or two in my day and none of my friends consider me a Slut so to say. Reputation are fucking stupid unless you are trying to be famous or you have a competitive job. I am sure their are countless people who love and adore you, one of these days a relationship like that will have the sexual element

[Stormtrooper of Death]

My good friend Justin told me that one.

[MollyMac]

Trust is not the problem. Trust is a wonderful thing that i have shared with many wonderful people who have returned the favor. Trust is somethine earned out of time and effort.

Abuse of trust is the problem. Giving of trust without earning it is the problem, too freely trusting in other words. Trust is grown in your own garden, not reaped from the work of others.

[Duane]

I don't have anyone I can trust, other than my family.

[Catch]

Lol that's funny give Justin a high five.

tickingstich - maybe you think it's funny, however, there have been people I would like to know better or at least be friends with, but all that's rolling through their mind is sex.

You know, there is the violence element too. Have you ever talked to someone and known that they will twist anything you say into something awful, but people will believe them. Then you're standing around trying to clarify the lie.

I remember hanging out when I was younger. There was this person who isn't that nice and she always says she's gothic. I was in the car with her and she told this other person's boyfriend that his girlfriend was just using him for stuff and didn't care about him at all. You see he buys his girfriends nice things and she was jealous. She tried breaking them up.

She got me involved too. Said I heard her say these things. What his girlfriend really said was that she really enjoyed how nice he was to her and no one was ever that nice to her. I told him.

You know what he said to me? "You go on protecting your friend." Then he turned to face satin and said, "You're my friend. You care about what happens to me."

So they broke up. Luckily, satin, didn't win. The guy went back to his old girlfriend. He doesn't his friends much of anything.

God. I still hate that bitch too. Wish she would just go away. Her fantasy world is to large to escape, but some people think she's cool. I think anyone that thinks she's cool is probably a low life too.

[Bete Noire]

I have trust issues

EDIT: or so they tell me...

[Catch]

Good. I say it trust shouldn't matter, because if you are going through life doing the best you can a have clear goals a pathetic liar or deceitful person cant' pull one over on you anyway.

[Catch]

I would like to add that if this approach to trust was taken more seriously the whole war on Iraq would have never happened. All those intelligence reports would have been looked at and we would have takn a lofty approach in the UN and better protected our own borders against terrorists.

I still think it was eco terrorists.

[mindless1]

Teens all have their own problems. What about the ones who have no one to turn to? They turn to the goth subculture and only get hurt. That shows you what society is. Look at what a wonderful society we are. We create a social atmosphere for the outcast and then we become the victimized and that's the mentality. We are the victims.

And then there are people who have suicidal issues and only get laughed at. Of course, no one is going to post on here in the future that they're suicidal. And if they are, then they're really special. No matter what then people are just going to be knocked off, and disrespected despite that each individual deserves a certain amount of respect.

Unfortunately, I don't know the majority of goth's stance on RESPECT.

[Catch]

I used to do that, but there's too many. Nothing personal, but I've had problems with people getting too attached to me and it takes a long to get them to turn around and start seeing the people around them and their life and what it could be. After that, they move on and start seeing the world is more and they can be apart of it. It's so disfunctional until then though.

Usually people who are suicidal have overly protective or voltures for parents. They are some kind of social extention to their partents and their parents put too much onto them. So you want to die. What are you afraid of? There isn't much of anything worse than death and if you're lucky, you'll die.

That's my perky speach for the death inclined. I've dealt with suicidal thoughts most of my preteen life and after. So buck it up!

Get off my thread too, unless you realize not trusting anyone is brilliant!

[HumanePain]

Originally Posted by MollyMac

Trust is not the problem. Trust is a wonderful thing that i have shared with many wonderful people who have returned the favor. Trust is something earned out of time and effort.

Abuse of trust is the problem. Giving of trust without earning it is the problem, too freely trusting in other words. Trust is grown in your own garden, not reaped from the work of others.

Quoted for truth.
One must earn trust from others, but it does take a few lessons while young in life to learn that trusting some people from the start is a mistake.

After a while, you learn to trust yourself and your instinct, to know who to be suspicious about and who to give your trust to.

"Paranoia is a survival trait"
-hp

[mindless1]

"Life, it is a sociologist's game."

Don't quote me.

[Tha Duckman]

Lady, I'd saw my own cock off with a piece of paper before I would quote you.

[Catch]

Originally Posted by mindless1

"Life, it is a sociologist's game."

Don't quote me.

Go do something! Live! Get the most out of meeting people who are nice and people your mother warned you about. Get some trust issues and then post.

You know what: bad reputation, embarassing moments and all it's still better than sitting around wondering why I'm never happy.

BTW, you all suck and are maggots. That's right you wish you could use me to might other people. But all you care about is clothes and make up. Go buy some and leave me out of your deranged aspirations of being Goth.

Maybe I'll go live in my car next week.

[Tha Duckman]

I wanna fuck you up yr butt.

[Catch]

I bet you do. Won't ever happen.

You're okay on the thread. Mr. Standoffish, whoever knows what you actually mean by anything.

[Tha Duckman]

I mean I wants to take you up yr bum bum!!!!