On being MALE and the male form - Page 5

LaKeesha · 03-15-2007, 07:32 AM

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Originally Posted by KontanKarite

From my experience, mah lady, males are indeed worse. So essentially, I think what it boils down to is that I may have a sour taste for sexual interaction regardless of gender. Yes, I know this makes it a very bleak fate in the bedroom for me.

Bleak for YOU?! SHit. *I'm* in the damn DOGHOUSE again!
(He cuts me off when he gets mad at me. Lucky me. I thought that was supposed to be the other way 'round.)

KontanKarite · 03-15-2007, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by LaKeesha

Bleak for YOU?! SHit. *I'm* in the damn DOGHOUSE again!
(He cuts me off when he gets mad at me. Lucky me. I thought that was supposed to be the other way 'round.)

Sweetie, he'll come around.

Be sure to punish him properly for his negligence.

Draconysius · 03-15-2007, 10:13 AM

I don't mind a stubble (or deathburns), but I can't stand beards. I like a man super-skinny with a little muscle, and of course, I prefer him to be goth, punk, or deathrock. I also like tall mens.

wishcat · 03-15-2007, 10:56 AM

I like my men to be skinny but not skinnier than me. I'm 5'8 and thin, so my men have to be my height or taller. I like a little bit of muscle not too much though. I don't like body hair! It's a big turn off for me. I do like a little hair on the chin. But usually I don't like facial hair either.

As far as the rest of the looks, it all depends on the guy. If he is nice and sweet, I don't really care if he is not good looking. I didn't think my ex-boyfriend was attractive but he was cool as f**k. And I was with him for 2 years. If they have a good body and are good looking, it's all just a bonus for me.

bleedingheart344 · 03-15-2007, 12:21 PM

I like my guys to be skinny, a little bit of muscle, I like black hair and green or blue eyes, I like straight hair even though mine's really curly. I don't really mind body hair because I have a bit of it, no facial hair, cannot stand it. Surprisingly enough, I can't find anyone.

I do like a guy that's always there for you, someone that's really in tune to your emotions and tries to make you feel better whenever you are down. *sigh* in a perfect world, haha.

Vako · 03-15-2007, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Mir

This obsession with appearances is appalling. However, that is to be expected as the Goth culture places a lot of its focus on appearances.

Having preferences and standards for appearance is not unethical. Obsession however, is self-limiting. I don't think too many people who have expressed themselves in this thread are suffering from that affliction.

That's how I feel about it, anyway...

Lucretia_my_Reflection · 03-15-2007, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by bleedingheart344

I like my guys to be skinny, a little bit of muscle, I like black hair and green or blue eyes, I like straight hair even though mine's really curly. I don't really mind body hair because I have a bit of it, no facial hair, cannot stand it. Surprisingly enough, I can't find anyone.

I do like a guy that's always there for you, someone that's really in tune to your emotions and tries to make you feel better whenever you are down. *sigh* in a perfect world, haha.

i know where have they all gone ?

Lucretia_my_Reflection · 03-15-2007, 05:35 PM

sorry that came out wrong what i meant to say was
I know where have all the people with feelings gone, its all about numbness and all people want from there partner is a sexel being for them to please them selves with.

LaKeesha · 03-15-2007, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucretia_my_Reflection

sorry that came out wrong what i meant to say was
I know where have all the people with feelings gone, its all about numbness and all people want from there partner is a sexel being for them to please them selves with.

Well, it makes me glad I am not single in this day and age. Looks kinda grim.

Lucretia_my_Reflection · 03-15-2007, 05:52 PM

Very very grim i think the date **** issue is a big contributer to this problem and peoples partners having pressure on them selves not to be over friendly etc .

republigoth · 03-15-2007, 05:55 PM

Naw, you just have to look. The internet helps.

And I personally would prefer having someone's thoughtful respect than their squishy emotions. Though both can be nice.

If a numb partner is what someone wants, I would suggest investing in a good blow up doll. Us real girls may be more complicated and demanding, but the possiblity of mutual passion is worth the trouble, is it not?

And carry pepper spray. Just in case.

Underwater Ophelia · 03-15-2007, 06:54 PM

Not to brag, but I haven't had trouble finding decent looking (and nice) guys in years. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places?

raggedyanne · 03-15-2007, 06:57 PM

or a switchblade. I like it when a guy can joke and talk with me and I feel like he's thinking about the conversation and not the size of my chest. I've had a couple bad experiences with guys who couldn't understand personal space, so remember, at least 3 - 5 feet please! lol
Most of my friends are guys so my main complaint is that some don't understand that deoderant isn't a contagious disease; I hope most older men don't have that problem. . .

ArtificialOne · 03-15-2007, 06:59 PM

I think appearance is really important. Allot of poeple dissagree with me, but I have found after doing lots o traveling and knowing lots of people, What you wear and how you keep yourself up is a direct window on how you are on the inside.

It comes down to weather you care for anything. It doesn't matter what body type or if you're ugly or not. If you don't care enough to shower or comb your hair, why should other care what you say.

We do live in a society and have to get along with one another. If you want to look like crap and stink, go pull a unibomber and get yourself a shack in a lesser known area of the world. Nothing more I hate in the world is to be nect to someone in line with the worst BO in the world..

MollyMac · 03-15-2007, 07:16 PM

Appearance is important on a basic level- something has to attract you to that person. It may be appearance, it may not be. But we all have preferences, I do. That is not wrong.

What is wrong is utilising only one criteria for "loving" a person and disregarding the entire package, for better or ill.

LaKeesha · 03-15-2007, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

Not to brag, but I haven't had trouble finding decent looking (and nice) guys in years. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places?

Shoot! Ain't that why the cowboy had a brown nose?

(If you are too young you are not going to get this joke about why the cowboy's nose was brown.)

LaKeesha · 03-15-2007, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucretia_my_Reflection

i know where have they all gone ?

Honey, they drank all this BEER at the damn bar and got beer-gut.
If they tell you it's their "Cinderella Belly" they BULLSHITTING.
(Mine is working' on getting one. Dammit. I TOLD him I don't want that damn beer gut in my house!)

Lucretia_my_Reflection · 03-15-2007, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by LaKeesha

Honey, they drank all this BEER at the damn bar and got beer-gut.
If they tell you it's their "Cinderella Belly" they BULLSHITTING.
(Mine is working' on getting one. Dammit. I TOLD him I don't want that damn beer gut in my house!)

lol They still have to be cuddly i don't want to hug a twig, beer cuts and too much body hair is disgusting. Not to be shallow but they got to be taller then me im 6", lakeesha that joke was dirty. lol

PersephoneX · 03-15-2007, 10:45 PM

Hmmm...I tend to find myself attracted to aggressive men.

I like it when they're capable of admitting they have a jealous streak a mile wide...

Killer_Burrito · 03-17-2007, 06:16 PM

I personally am totally turned off by skinny guys..I like a more medium build. He has to be bigger, stronger, and taller than me or no deal. Unless he's just so darn cute and artistic like my current crush...oh geeze I hope he comes to the party tomorrow...
lol
^_^

Sable_Rose · 03-20-2007, 01:43 PM

My ideal guy would have:

dark hair and eyes.

Thin but not skinny.

Some muscle; too much literally grosses me out.

Not too hairy, but not completely hairless. Not too much facial hair if he has it.

Taller then me.

Sense of humor.

Dresses well.

Good hygiene.

Smart. If he's a blockhead, he sickens me.

Boyfriend material. I hate players, or someone who is only interested in the physical.

Respectful.

I like cute guys rather then "hot" ones.

....Okay, I think I'll stop here. This is basically me ideal guy, but just because a guy doesn't have all of these qualities doesn't mean I wouln't date him.

ArtificialOne · 03-20-2007, 04:57 PM

Hm... seems to be a recuring theme this "Hates to much muscle" thing.....

I could see how it could be grotesque, but I geuss I've been brainwashed by the media to think women only want men with muscles and wavy hair..lol

Mir · 03-20-2007, 04:58 PM

Blah. Its nice to see women who actually know what they want for a change.

MollyMac · 03-20-2007, 05:20 PM

I don't like body bulider muscle, but a solidm healthy form is alwats nice. As long as he spends more time with me than at the gym....

Underwater Ophelia · 03-20-2007, 07:36 PM

I like men who are thickly built. Not chubby, although on the right guy, that's really good. But...just strong looking.