I Don't expect You to feel sorry for me.. I just need somewhere to put this..

Xxmorbid_princessxX · 07-11-2007, 10:02 AM

I found out this morning that one of my best friends was killed in a car accident last night at about 8:30...I loved her so much... She was always so happy and bubbly..She was the only one that didn't survive.. I'm so numb.. I'm sorry, I just had to put this somewhere. I don't know what to do..

Hades · 07-11-2007, 10:32 AM

Well, it's the whining section, and this is far from whining i'd say. I'm really sorry about your friend (empathy-wise, not pity), i hope she didn't suffer much in her last moments. I do think, however, that you could have some better moral support and understanding from your real friends, not strangers. Don't shut yourself out to the people who are still alive

Rae Ven Rae · 07-11-2007, 10:36 AM

I concur with Hades -- but I know that soemtimes purging and channeling your thoughts via writing helps and I am more than willing to listen if you want to chat -- I lost my father in 2004 so I know what death can do to you...sepiasiren@**********,

*big hugs*

Crying_Crimson_Tears · 07-11-2007, 11:18 AM

*Hugs*

That's tough sweetie. I am so sorry.

bleedingheart344 · 07-11-2007, 01:50 PM

*e-hugs* I hope you feel better, things like this are always so tough.

Minyaliel · 07-11-2007, 02:40 PM

It is a shock, I can quite imagine. I've lost a few people who were very dear to me myself. The world seems to go bleak, surreal,at least it did for me. I am very sorry for your loss. Be strong, dear, let yourself mourn and then prepare to move on. Your friend will always be with you in your heart. I wish there was anything I could do for you... Here's an e- hug *hugs*, at the very least. I'll light a candle for you and your friend tonight.

Aaroneet · 07-11-2007, 03:08 PM

I think Minilayel said it best. Otherwise, try to remember your friend for the good, and not how they died. Take solace in the fact that you were able to come into contact with such a person, and feel learn to feel happy for that sole fact. If anything, death should bring you closer to that person, and to those around you. Learn to appreciate those you know and love, even after their deaths; as hackneyed as it sounds, it's probably what they would have wanted.

MotherofMercies · 07-11-2007, 05:49 PM

I too lost a friend in a car crash, I know how it feels.

*hugs*

Lady_Lacrimosa_Umbrae · 07-12-2007, 11:24 AM

My regrets... (Sends you a lot of E-Hugs)

Anguelon · 07-12-2007, 04:38 PM

My condolences to you. I hope your friend didn't suffer during her final moments. I hope that you don't shut yourself down. I know and hope everyone in this thread will provide you with the comfort you need. But no amount of words will make you feel better now, but they sure will help you accept her death. (Great now I'm rambling and starting to sound like Jerry Springer.) Sweetheart, I just want to tell you that you'll just need some time to get over her death. Think of the good times. Don't wonder and torture yourself about her last moments, you'll hurt more. Just think that she's in a better place. I was taught as a child that when a loved one dies, there soul remains near you for forty days. I do believe that for when my mother died, I felt her presence for forty days...a real intense feeling. Most Catholics in the Middle East believe this. Talk to her, I promise you that you'll feel better. Yeah, you'll probably cry but believe me you'll feel better. Tons of e-hugs and e-kisses.

DeathChii · 07-12-2007, 04:57 PM

I'm so sorry =[ For you, your friend, and her family.
Hopefully she's in a better place.
All the love <3 -hugs-

thedoll · 07-12-2007, 05:47 PM

*hugs* if you need to chat feel free to pm me.

biohazard · 07-15-2007, 11:48 PM

I am not sure what to say about this. But I am very sorry for yourself and your friend, if that helps. Try to think aobut other things, and think positively. Try not to mourn over this for too long, it could become trouble for you.

Don't Look Behind You · 07-16-2007, 02:07 AM

Death of loved ones is terrible for the human mind. Try not to dwell on it, live on.

††BlackRose†† · 07-16-2007, 08:04 AM

I'm so sorry. Good people die fast. Please try not to linger to long in the memories because they do cause a lot of pain. There is nothing that you really can do now for her, but just live on. Tommorow is a new day and time for one is not sympathetic. Losing someone is very hard. I know that it sounds harder to do it then just saying it but try to be positive, negativity willl only bring you down.

Beneath the Shadows · 07-16-2007, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Xxmorbid_princessxX

I don't know what to do..

Go to her grave and cry until there are no more tears. It doesn't change anything, but it's a first step.

Xxmorbid_princessxX · 07-26-2007, 10:10 AM

Hey all,
I aplogize that I didn't come on and reply earlier, but thank you so much for the support and hugs. I'm still healing, but I'm so much better than I was.

~Little Wednesday~

Katanshin · 07-26-2007, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Xxmorbid_princessxX

Hey all,
I aplogize that I didn't come on and reply earlier, but thank you so much for the support and hugs. I'm still healing, but I'm so much better than I was.

~Little Wednesday~

A friend of mine was found dead in his apartment a few weeks back... Best you can do is remember happy times and that they're watching out for you.

Oh, and don't turn Emo.

Onetwothree · 07-26-2007, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Xxmorbid_princessxX

I found out this morning that one of my best friends was killed in a car accident last night at about 8:30...I loved her so much... She was always so happy and bubbly..She was the only one that didn't survive.. I'm so numb.. I'm sorry, I just had to put this somewhere. I don't know what to do..

That's a horrible feeling. There isn't much else to say about this. I am sure someone else who you know will be better able to eloquently, and perhaps elegantly soothe your nerves a bit. It will take at least a year to get back to somewhat normal. It will never be normal though.

TopHaggardDoll · 07-26-2007, 11:20 PM

I am very sorry for your loss.

Remember you have friends and family to lean on, I know it's hard but just remember, your best friend will want you to have a good life, no matter what.

As katanshin said, remember the happy times.

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Xxmorbid_princessxX · 07-27-2007, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Katanshin

A friend of mine was found dead in his apartment a few weeks back... Best you can do is remember happy times and that they're watching out for you.

Oh, and don't turn Emo.

Don't worry, I won't ^_^

The_Screaming_Whisper · 08-03-2007, 03:37 PM

I am sooo sorry for you.....friends are precious....think of it this way....you are lucky that you had a friend like her and got to spend the time you did with her.....

October_Night · 08-12-2007, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Xxmorbid_princessxX

I found out this morning that one of my best friends was killed in a car accident last night at about 8:30...I loved her so much... She was always so happy and bubbly..She was the only one that didn't survive.. I'm so numb.. I'm sorry, I just had to put this somewhere. I don't know what to do..

Im sorry to hear that.

Metabolik · 08-16-2007, 11:07 AM

I'm very sorry to hear that, i can't really understand how you feel, but I've seen the effects it has on people and it ripps me apart, my mother lost alot of close friends.