over sexualized teens - Page 3

tickingstitch · 02-05-2008, 12:42 PM

No babies and safe!

Tam Li Hua · 02-05-2008, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by tickingstitch

The subject line of this thread makes me laugh. Is there really such thing as over sexualized teans? No, your either fucking or masterbating. Everyone. Period. I dont care if you are a 17 bible thumper, chances are he is looking at porn, who cares... Let the kids figure out what is hot to them.
I say give the teens more freedom to express their sexuality. Fuck the box.
yes, Live and Let Fuck. In a safe manner of course.

As a former teen 'Bible thumper', I'm just gonna stop you there and say, no...not all teens f*ck or masturbate.

As a teen, I was terrified of my sexuality. I had never been sexually abused or anything, but neither did anyone explain it to me. So I didn't do anything sexual at all until I was in my late 20s.

I'm talking about nothing; no kissing, no heavy petting, no make-out sessions, no porn, no masturbation or sexual fantasies...nothing. [Hell, when I -did- start M-ing a couple of years ago, I felt horribly guilty for a while, and was sure the wrath of God was going to come down and smite me! Of course, it never did, but the very real fear was there.]

While it's true that some kids, even religious ones, are prone to it...I'd just like to join in here to say that it's not -all- kids, or even -all- adults; while it -is- a perfectly natural process, putting the fear of God and hell into someone can do a lot to freeze a person's libido.

Anyways, just wanted to put that in there, just to provide a very different perspective.

Tha Duckman · 02-05-2008, 12:45 PM

If I told you that I looked uncannily like Jesus, do you think that would have changed your mind?

Mir · 02-05-2008, 12:46 PM

Si, si! Size does matter. * nods sagely *

Ha.

Graveyard.Crow · 02-05-2008, 01:02 PM

Thanks for all the input

Apathy's_Child · 02-05-2008, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Tam Li Hua

As a former teen 'Bible thumper', I'm just gonna stop you there and say, no...not all teens f*ck or masturbate.

As a teen, I was terrified of my sexuality. I had never been sexually abused or anything, but neither did anyone explain it to me. So I didn't do anything sexual at all until I was in my late 20s.

I'm talking about nothing; no kissing, no heavy petting, no make-out sessions, no porn, no masturbation or sexual fantasies...nothing. [Hell, when I -did- start M-ing a couple of years ago, I felt horribly guilty for a while, and was sure the wrath of God was going to come down and smite me! Of course, it never did, but the very real fear was there.]

While it's true that some kids, even religious ones, are prone to it...I'd just like to join in here to say that it's not -all- kids, or even -all- adults; while it -is- a perfectly natural process, putting the fear of God and hell into someone can do a lot to freeze a person's libido.

Anyways, just wanted to put that in there, just to provide a very different perspective.

Wow, I always figured that was a myth put out by deluded Flanders-esque adults. Freaky shit.

Tam Li Hua · 02-05-2008, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Apathy's_Child

Wow, I always figured that was a myth put out by deluded Flanders-esque adults. Freaky shit.

Nope.

I -will- admit it's uncommon, even among religious teens, but not a complete myth.

Apathy's_Child · 02-05-2008, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Tam Li Hua

Nope.

I -will- admit it's uncommon, even among religious teens, but not a complete myth.

Fuck me. Girl, you must have a will of iron

Tam Li Hua · 02-05-2008, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Apathy's_Child

Fuck me. Girl, you must have a will of iron

Something like that. Heh.

Underwater Ophelia · 02-05-2008, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Graveyard.Crow

Making out is different to me, for some odd reason I don't mind random make outs. Then again, that's just personal.

If you don't mind randomly making out with people, why do you mind other people having random sex?
For them it's just personal too.

Lapin · 02-05-2008, 02:04 PM

Sex is enjoyable. As long as people go about things the proper way (i.e. birth control, condoms, etc.) I see no reason why they should not partake in said enjoyable activity as often as they like.

Sex is not dirty. That's a puritanical line of thought that needs to die.

You are not a slut if you enjoy sex and engage in it often. You're a human being. (Unless you're in a committed relationship. Then you're a slag, regardless of your gender)

And quite frankly, what other people are comfortable with in regards to sexuality is none of your business unless you're the one having sex with them.

Tam Li Hua · 02-05-2008, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Lapin

Sex is enjoyable. As long as people go about things the proper way (i.e. birth control, condoms, etc.) I see no reason why they should not partake in said enjoyable activity as often as they like.

Sex is not dirty. That's a puritanical line of thought that needs to die.

You are not a slut if you enjoy sex and engage in it often. You're a human being. (Unless you're in a committed relationship. Then you're a slag, regardless of your gender)

And quite frankly, what other people are comfortable with in regards to sexuality is none of your business unless you're the one having sex with them.

I agree.

However, in my own case, I'm still perfectly happy waiting until I'm in a committed relationship at this point; I don't regret not having sex, and really I need my life to be as uncomplicated as possible; with as weird as I am just about my personal space in general...plus with all the diseases and chances for something to go wrong...I'd rather just not give Fate yet another chance to do me in the ass. ^^;;;

Others can do as they wish. I'm-a gonna do what I gotta do to keep my sanity.

tickingstitch · 02-05-2008, 03:33 PM

I agree with Lapin....

People who dont MB scare me in fact you are the first person I ever met...

badteccy · 02-05-2008, 04:57 PM

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It's pretty much the same in the Western world, and some of the Eastern. He's clueless when it comes to females, even more than I am, and I'm partially retarded. It'll make you unsure of yourself and the opposite sex, and it's the perfect time and environment to "Get yr legs" as it were. I'm not saying fuck around with as many people as you can, but if you're gonna do it for the first time anywhere, college is the perfect opportunity. Take it or leave it, just don't bitch about it or argue.

I actually think it's better to wait until college to have sex (not that I did, that's been broke).

badteccy · 02-05-2008, 05:01 PM

I also think that their is nothing wrong with people having sex without commitment. I mean, teens shouldn't be doing that, but once you're an adult, hey...go for it. Just be safe.

Graveyard.Crow · 02-05-2008, 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

If you don't mind randomly making out with people, why do you mind other people having random sex?
For them it's just personal too.

Random make out for me is you at least were sort of friends with that person before hand, just not a romantic kind of relationship.
People can do what they want, they just don't need to be PROUD of being preconscious. It's not hard for a girl to find a guy to screw. It isn't an achievement.

dark_dragon_of_ice · 02-05-2008, 09:12 PM

So the point of this whole thing is you don't like people gloating about sex?
Ok thats fine you can live.

le_revenant · 02-06-2008, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Graveyard.Crow

This maybe kind of unusual to some people, but it's been pissing me off for a while. IT's like teenagers are just way too obsessed with sex. They like to get drunk and make out with random people, maybe even screw random people...

Awwlright!! Its the 1980s again!

Lord knows that all reminds me of the heady days of yore, when my early-teen friends & I were trying to luck out & catch a few seconds of clear signal thru Cinemax or the Playboy channel's scrambled signals when the teen sex comedies of then didn't suffice. Or when one of us (except, typically, me) got lucky & retold the adventure in the school cafeteria or after school.
Sex ed? VD? "What's all that?" we'd ask.
AIDS? Just making its ascent on the horizon.

Yep, heady days.
Still, I sympathize with how blataant kids are these days. We were more discreet. Lord knows we knew better than to knock anybody up!

I remember a few years ago driving to my folks' house & stopping at a redlight. While waiting for the green I see a young couple at a bus stop making out like no tomorrow. What made it disturbing was that they appeared to be all of, oh I dunno, EIGHT YEARS OLD!!!

And they wonder why we have so many teenage single moms around here?...