i have no clue what i did...

Gloomybunneh · 11-19-2008, 03:32 PM

fuck it...
alright every girl has the one guy who they meet and think hes awesome.
well i meet mine. he was really nice and sweet to me. he asked things of me.but nothing bad and he always tould me if i didnt want to i didnt have to.
he tould me i was awesome and amazing. then after a while we had the kiss
then a while after that he tould me he loved me. and i couldnt lie i fell for him and hard then about six weeks after that i admited that i fell in love with him to, everything was perfect...he tould me he loved me everyday..hugs and cute kisses...nothing preshering..i gave him my all i never even looked at another guy. Then one weekend he asked me to call him..i called..he never answered. The the next day i got this text.
"..i have a girlfriend so i have to distance myself from you
because ive become attatched to you."
i couldnt respond..i had no idea what to say..
but i had to respond so i texted back.
"oh..."

JCC · 11-19-2008, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Gloomybunneh

fuck it...
alright every girl has the one guy who they meet and think hes awesome.

Welcome to Gloomybunneh's neo-con utopia where lesbians don't exist.

Gloomybunneh · 11-19-2008, 03:36 PM

thats not what i ment by that..gosh haha

JCC · 11-19-2008, 03:38 PM

Anyway, regarding the actual topic: he's a lying shitbag.

Gloomybunneh · 11-19-2008, 03:41 PM

ah yes..im well aware.
his so called "girlfriend" that he never tould me about has been around the block more then afue times. so maybe he will cetch something.

Godslayer Jillian · 11-19-2008, 03:42 PM

Have you tried turning it off and on again?

Gloomybunneh · 11-19-2008, 03:44 PM

yeah..then the mute button then the selfdestruct button..
i think he was defective.

Godslayer Jillian · 11-19-2008, 03:47 PM

Damn. That suggestion generally works on the internet.

Gloomybunneh · 11-19-2008, 03:48 PM

hm. well not this time. it might just be me

Tam Li Hua · 11-20-2008, 07:50 AM

Wow...that guy's a huge douchebag. I'd -definitely- stay away from him if I were you.

$haDe · 11-20-2008, 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Gloomybunneh

"..i have a girlfriend so i have to distance myself from you
because ive become attatched to you."

1.Optimisticly, He LOVED you and don't want to hurt your feeling.

2.Pessimisticly, That's bullshit.

Either one goes for my opinion, No.2 is recommended for long-term relationship.

StrangeLove · 11-20-2008, 09:35 AM

Obviously a dirtbag.
Even if he left his current girlfriend for you, how do you know he wouldn't do the same thing with someone else while with you. The cheating pattern indeed.

Breathless Horror · 11-20-2008, 02:51 PM

DIRTBAG!!

That sucks Gloomybunneh, but at least you're not stuck to a lying jackass.

Sir. Helpmann · 11-20-2008, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Gloomybunneh

fuck it...
alright every girl has the one guy who they meet and think hes awesome.
well i meet mine. he was really nice and sweet to me. he asked things of me.but nothing bad and he always tould me if i didnt want to i didnt have to.
he tould me i was awesome and amazing. then after a while we had the kiss
then a while after that he tould me he loved me. and i couldnt lie i fell for him and hard then about six weeks after that i admited that i fell in love with him to, everything was perfect...he tould me he loved me everyday..hugs and cute kisses...nothing preshering..i gave him my all i never even looked at another guy. Then one weekend he asked me to call him..i called..he never answered. The the next day i got this text.
"..i have a girlfriend so i have to distance myself from you
because ive become attatched to you."
i couldnt respond..i had no idea what to say..
but i had to respond so i texted back.
"oh..."

Well, who'd have thought?
Well, bless my soul!
Well, who'd have known?
Well, who indeed?
And who'd have guessed they'd come together on their own?
It's so peculiar. Wait and see!
We'll wait and see... a few days more...

There may be something there that wasn't there before :P

Eclipsing the Son · 11-20-2008, 03:50 PM

You were played like the pawn you are.

Ra_star · 11-20-2008, 04:13 PM

Sorry to brake it to you sweetie, but hes a bloke. Guys are only after one thing. How foolish of you to "fall in love" with someone you clearly didnt know enough about. Relationships are huge things, difficult to hide.

Whenever he discovered that you wouldnt open your legs fast enough was only whenever he decided to come clean, probably only because he was bored and an attempt to force your creepy little obsession to die.

If he really loved you his chick would have been dropped in an instant, but he didnt, did he? Silly girl. Hes a happy man in a happy relationship, his plan just backfired.

You should have fucked him, would have gave you a fighting chance.

Men are pigs - get over it.

Scareebowfairy · 11-20-2008, 08:25 PM

I agree with Ra_star. When it come to females there are lots of games men like to play and they usually never play fair.
I disagree however that you should have slept with him. If you didn't at least his little game didn't win him the only thing he wanted.

Cicero · 11-20-2008, 11:04 PM

The guy is question is obviously a dickhead, but saying 'oh all men are like that' is complete bullshit. Women play stupid games, too.

Eclipsing the Son · 11-21-2008, 01:19 AM

We are a LOT better at it though.

Beneath the Shadows · 11-21-2008, 01:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Gloomybunneh

i have no clue what i did...

Given your summary of the course of events, I would say that you didn't do anything. Or, at least, anything wrong.

Beneath the Shadows · 11-21-2008, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Ra_star

Sorry to brake it to you sweetie, but hes a bloke. Guys are only after one thing. How foolish of you to "fall in love" with someone you clearly didnt know enough about. Relationships are huge things, difficult to hide.

Whenever he discovered that you wouldnt open your legs fast enough was only whenever he decided to come clean, probably only because he was bored and an attempt to force your creepy little obsession to die.

If he really loved you his chick would have been dropped in an instant, but he didnt, did he? Silly girl. Hes a happy man in a happy relationship, his plan just backfired.

You should have fucked him, would have gave you a fighting chance.

Men are pigs - get over it.

You really don't know much about men, do you?

Ra_star · 11-21-2008, 02:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Beneath the Shadows

You really don't know much about men, do you?

I know alot about men, particularly bored horny men in relationships, add a drop of stupidity and you have this lady's story in a nutshell.

Personally, I fucking hate chicks [apart from myself, I'm fucking awesome]. All my friends are blokes so I'm around them 24/7. When they fall in love they fall hard, they take it alot more seriously than women, as for sex, its a completely differant story.

Alarica · 11-21-2008, 03:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Sir. Helpmann

Well, who'd have thought?
Well, bless my soul!
Well, who'd have known?
Well, who indeed?
And who'd have guessed they'd come together on their own?
It's so peculiar. Wait and see!
We'll wait and see... a few days more...

There may be something there that wasn't there before :P

The best response you could come up with?

I'd never have had you down as the kind of child who watches Disney films!

$haDe · 11-21-2008, 04:18 AM

Let him be, Alarica.

It's not worthy.

Chee · 11-21-2008, 04:21 AM

I'd say it's just a phase you're going to have to go through because some junk-ass scumbag.
At least you now learnt how no to fall in love with everyone who tells you you're awesome, or beautiful. Which is, by the way, the very same mistake I made about three months ago. You should give less time to such things!