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Old 07-27-2009, 11:33 AM   #1
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Raggle Frilling Fraggle!

i am in high school, a senior, go ahead, mock that. mock this more: my twin sister is one of those poseur mall-goths and thinks my style is stupid. we shared friends for a while, but now she is in a feud with my friends and her stupid violent moron pack are threatening to physically harm my friends...
she's playing the victim.
no one on the side of my friends talked to me about the issue, all i heard was my sister telling people all of these mean things about one of my best friends and twisting the truth.

i took my friend's side, my sister has become a bad person, she is on drugs and is mean and expects me to abandon my straight-edge friends for her druggie poseur ones! i know she's my sister, but i don't know of anyone that would make that choice...

what sucked more was that this all started one time at band camp while i was so preoccupied with spinning a flag and dancing, i couldn't even talk to either side, i couldn't even stay awake long enough to talk on the phone when i got home. i literally only heard my sister's side of what happened, and she keeps going on about how they turned me against her...

drama needs to go away, i have better things to think about...
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Old 07-27-2009, 11:39 AM   #2
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No matter how shitty things might get, remember that she is your sister.. And one day when she wakes up from all that -hopefully- , she is gonna find no one of her current friends around her, unless they are true friend, and you. So be there for her.

If she pisses you off like that again, just simply ignore her for a while.
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Old 07-27-2009, 11:48 AM   #3
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Well, as someone who knows from experience how tiring band camp can be, I can understand how you were so out of the loop.
Also, as the sibling of a drug addicted, violent, poser brother, I think I know what you're going through right now. I don't associate with my brother anymore, because some people just don't change.

Don't be naive and think that by abandoning your friends you'll be doing her any good at all. All you can do is stand your ground and try to talk some sense into her, and if she doesn't listen you just have to be there to offer a helping hand when she hits rock bottom. Hopefully she won't be like my brother who hit rock bottom and is still trying to dig further down.

I wish you the best of luck in your family issues.
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Old 07-27-2009, 07:40 PM   #4
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When she argues against you and whines, use logic to tear her arguement to pieces. Make it very clear that you don't want to do drugs or be involved in anything else she's doing; when she gets over this and decides to grow up, you'll be more involved again.
If you haven't already, or if you get anymore desperate, shed a little light on the drugs, rude/mean behavior, and whatever else she's doing.
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Old 07-28-2009, 02:12 AM   #5
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Slap the bitch and tell her to grow the fuck up.
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