fucking family!

[Soakka]

we are renting a trailor, serarounded by family members aunts; uncles; cousins; and we were toing great till my mother said no to a cousin next door. then all of a sudden we were not allowed to come over. they told us to stay out of their lives and we did. they have broken my sisters relationship with a man in iraq, tried to get us off of online school, called my and my sister whores. now they had bought this property from our aunt and uncle whom we are living with and paying rent to. told us we have 30 days to get out and told us we need to pay rent from july and we need to pay next months rent. is that even legal?! they have no reason to kick us out except that they hate us. we have bugs up the ass in this trailor and the damn thing is falling apart. i have no electricity in my room and the ac is not working so im a hot every damn night. i am getting power from my sisters room! and i have other stuff that they do to us, but im afraid that it would take so much room. i just need help. if they are able to get that money we will be living on the streets and i am NOT joking. hell my mom has ovarian cancer and my sis is 16. we need help!

[Soakka]

sorry for the misspelling, but i am so damn mad, my hands are shaking.

[TurquoiseXx]

Hey Soakka, I'm sorry that you have to go through this right now. What is the main reason for your relatives to be mad? You mentioned that your mother said no, but you didn't mention what she said no to. And also, do you have relatives in another area that can be of some help to you, your sister, and your mother?

[Solumina]

They can't make you pay rent for a time that you will not be living there, they also cannot make you pay rent if they are not performing their duties as landlord (such as getting rid of bugs, fixing the electrical, fixing any malfunctioning appliances, including A/C, and repairing any damages). I'm sorry about your situation, it is rather unfortunate.

[Joker_in_the_Pack]

Originally Posted by Soakka

we are renting a trailor, serarounded by family members aunts; uncles; cousins; and we were toing great till my mother said no to a cousin next door. then all of a sudden we were not allowed to come over. they told us to stay out of their lives and we did. they have broken my sisters relationship with a man in iraq, tried to get us off of online school, called my and my sister whores. now they had bought this property from our aunt and uncle whom we are living with and paying rent to. told us we have 30 days to get out and told us we need to pay rent from july and we need to pay next months rent. is that even legal?! they have no reason to kick us out except that they hate us. we have bugs up the ass in this trailor and the damn thing is falling apart. i have no electricity in my room and the ac is not working so im a hot every damn night. i am getting power from my sisters room! and i have other stuff that they do to us, but im afraid that it would take so much room. i just need help. if they are able to get that money we will be living on the streets and i am NOT joking. hell my mom has ovarian cancer and my sis is 16. we need help!

Due to how awful your situation is, I promise I will not make any redneck-trailer jokes. I hope everything gets well soon.

[MollyMac]

Trailer jokes are passe` and show a lack of grasping broader concepts. Like blonde jokes.

Where you live does not dictate who you are. Being who you are is what earns you trailer trash, hood rat, etc...

Soakka- it does suck and I am sorry. I just don't know what to say.

[Mir]

I thought this thread dealt with issue of incest. =[

[Soakka]

our cousin had a disagreement with her son and my sis suggested that he go live with us and i go live with themfor a week. as a joke. my parents said no and they sent him up here any way. he is 16. he was supposed to go to his aunt and uncles next door. but he never said anything for 2 to 3 days. after a week they said they did not want him back and told my mom to stay out of their lives. so we did. we have started to notice alot of things. all my life we have been fucked. now it turns out that we do need to pay them. which leaves us broke to even get out of their. before we moved here the aunt told us to move here and they would help us because of mom having cancer. we can not get the house we were going for cause my dad has no credit. which i dont get at all. word of advice, never trust your relitives ever! but trust your parents and siblings but still keep them at a safe distance. we have been fucked by both sides of our family. lets just hope that we are not homeless.

[Tam Li Hua]

What they are doing sounds highly illegal in several ways. I would call the authorities or a judge or something and get a court order for them to own up to their responsibilities.

I know this may not be the best way to go, but are there any community centers or church help organizations you can turn to? For that matter, are there any close friends/relatives [close as in emotionally] that you can turn to?

I pray everything works out well for you guys. I'm sorry that things are so difficult right now.

[Soakka]

they are now the new landlords and they have done their home work.

[Soakka]

now thye want us to stay cause our grandma is comming with us. HA! it looks like they were planning this sense or right after we moved here that our aunt( dads sis, boyfriend, and son) would get the trailor next door and our great aunt (previous owners) would get this so that they could help grandma. they were going to kick us out and they did not care. the other day the owners wanted to see my dad and the way that my dads sis said to my mom that night sounds like they were going to get my dad to leave us. he stay and we move. dad did not go though, he is pissed at what they had been planning. we are still moving ^^ lets just hope they dont do something to piss us off more.

[Saya]

wow.....its amazing how family can really be the ones to screw you over, isn't it? I think there's something seriously wrong with them there.

I'm glad that they aren't kicking you out anymore, but yeah finding another place sounds like a good idea.

[Soakka]

they are sill making us move. we have found a place though it is not bery good. it will have to do. they are trying to get my grandmother to stay. yesterday david baglin yelled at my dad( the former owner) when he we visiting his mother and was called a liar and a theif and so was his dad whom is dead. no respect there and that is his brother. mother called the wife, joyce, about that and the next day we got a letter that told us we were not allowed to call them on either the cell phone or the house phone. mom, me and my sister is not allowed over there(next door literaly). we can not see our grandmother. this family is a user. told us that she will get a restraining order on us if we called her agian or email her. we have done nothing to get this treatment. we never stole, done drugs, or cheated on them. we have no idea what set them off. i have no idea why people judge us before they even know us. it has happened all my life! since i first went to school i was called white trash. by kindergardens!! sorry if i am negatice or really ranting here. i have a right to be cause of this shit. my mother was crying this morning she has done nothing wrong and they are acting as if she is a criminal. which is really sad when the new owners girlfriend, the one whom started this shit, is a criminal. she has been arrested from taking and ruining others credits. she ruined her own nephews credit and probable her own son to. i hate this family so fucking bad.

[$haDe]

Oi!! That was bad,terribly bad!!

I got kicked out of my house by my own parents...that's because I did that to myself

But this,This is much different. They're threatening u and ur family

Get some cops on this..
Or evenbetter, The media!!

If u don't want this thing spread in world-wide conversation topic
Talk to some socialist

On the other hand,Get it on the next morning news.

If ur cousin 'is' human-being she'll surely deal with u a better card
If not...pay her back with everything u got!! Let's see what will the world says

Where r u from,anyway?

[Soakka]

im from oklahoma and she is the owner here now. mom is going to do something after we leave anyway. myuhahaha. but we dont need the media now. dad would not like it and we are so damn poor. we have all our time moving right now.

[Cicero]

Originally Posted by Mir

I thought this thread dealt with issue of incest. =[

Me too. I feel so horribly mislead.

[Soakka]

srry for taking so long to report back. everything is fine now. we live in tulsa now and have been home schooled for 2 years, am now applying for rogers. so is my sister. she has a boyfriend. we got out of there real fast and come to find out a year later that joyce and david (previous owners) never did sell the property to laurian and david ( was thought to be owners and the start of all this shit). my aunt suzie and her long time boyfriend kent moved up there for a year. then when kent had a seizer (srry) she had to move to tulsa as well. AGIAN that set larian off. cut off her cell (with various excuses) and she had to move so fast she is still trying to get all her stuff up here. and they movied in with us for a couple of months. heard from sisters friend that laurians son josh was calling my mom a bitch to everyone. said friend and another politly (*evil grin*) told him to shut it or get knocked out. mom had another surgery and now again has a colostomy (shitting bag on the side of her stomache) and had two holes from puss right were her insishin is. i am the one that is helping her. i will forever have a huge grudge against them all and am planning to be a police officer/csi so they better watch out. **very evil laugh**

[Lolly PopMuzik]

Originally Posted by Soakka

Schooling with a poorly spelled, punctuated and written block of text

Seriously?

[Serren]

Hi,

I am very sorry about your family.

I don't know if you have any type of advice centers there but can you try and get some advice from anywhere? You could try going to a homelessness hostel type place, you may not want to move in but they may give you some advice.

I wonder if you would qualify for government/social type housing?

My advice would be to keep the rent for a deposit elsewhere. You may have to pay rent for the time you lived in the trailer, and you may find they can evict you if you are not up to date with the rent payments.

Keep any documents they give you like nasty letters saying not to contact them. Once you have moved out you can give them to the police and ask them if they can do anything.

You may also want to report your relatives for kicking out the 16 year old, once you have moved out.

I hope you and your family are OK, particularly your mum. Don't do anything rash however tempting it maybe.

Take care,

Serren.

[vindicatedxjin]

Find anyway you can to move out...your story is just so freaking frustrating...I hate seeing people like you treated that way....I'm sorry your having such a difficult time...I'll pray for you.