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08-30-2005, 10:57 PM
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#51
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 1,249
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O_o* Ack. More fighting arises.
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08-30-2005, 11:00 PM
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#52
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Sydney Australia
Posts: 7
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i like popcorn
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08-30-2005, 11:02 PM
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#53
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 1,249
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There is a randomness thread for that.
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08-30-2005, 11:03 PM
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#54
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 70
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you should read this if you want fighting. See just how nasty they can turn on you for no reason. Scroll down until you see me saying "this is just a suggestion" That's when the fun begins...
https://www.gothic.net/boards/showth...0235#post10235
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08-30-2005, 11:04 PM
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#55
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Posts: 2,130
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Nice, another martyr.
You had a second chance in that I (un-wisely) did not tell EPS once you revealed you were Sandmanhero.
You made waaaaay too many threads...like flooding the board. I was on that night and suggested you slow down or stop, and you did the "Oh that reminds me I have some more to post!" and on top of that, you used that second identity to confront EPS about banning your first one! Look how many posts you made in the short time you were BoleroBelle. And can I just say how obnoxious BoleroBelle was, sober or not? You took shots at beloved members on here, and the rest of your posts rang of your OTHER alter ego, Bexxle.
This is a website people. BOTH OF YOU submitted your home numbers in an attempt to try and stay, and when that didn't work you tried decieving the members you claim to love over and over again, and I am positive you both will do it again since neither of you lack the ability to take a hint or the word "no" for an answer.
I'm not sure (nor do I care) what other sites you do your "Sybil" act on, but please go back there, and take DCreep with you.
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08-30-2005, 11:15 PM
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#56
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 70
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FOR THE UPTEENTH MILLION TIME I AM NOT BEXXLE.
i can't believe you Alkilyu. You and i talked and became friends and then now you're saying that it was by your good graces that you didn't tell EPS? how was that a welcomed second chance? If you were just playing at us being friends for the MONTHS that we talked through IM, i would have rather you have ratted me out.
How can you develop a friendship with someone and then say that it was bullshit? How can you have talked to me for months, shared your personal life with me and then say i was just fucking around. SOunds like i'm not the only one who has led a double life.
That's one hell of an asshole statement
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08-30-2005, 11:17 PM
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#57
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 1,249
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Hmmm...perhaps you should take this off site.
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08-30-2005, 11:21 PM
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#58
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 70
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You tell me where i can take it that they'll follow and possibly hear me out and i will.
The whole point is that i was unfairly banned the first time. it was bullshit. I had proof of my innocence in what happened. They didn't care. they just got ban happy. And they still wont believe me.
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08-30-2005, 11:22 PM
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#59
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 70
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and alkliyu, who CARES how much i've posted? this is a messageboard! It's what you're SUPPOSED to do.
i mean, you've only been here for just over a year and YOU"Ve posted over 1500 posts. That's more then half the people who've been here for FOUR years.
hypocrite.
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08-30-2005, 11:26 PM
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#60
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Posts: 2,130
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That other site must be pretty boring tonight since you are still here still demanding your case be heard.
I talk to ALOT of people on IM, and if you remember I stopped talking to you when you mentioned you had a friend IRL whose mother called you a "stalker".
Have some pride, just leave and leave us alone.
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08-30-2005, 11:29 PM
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#61
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 70
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That is a god damn LIE!
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08-31-2005, 04:10 AM
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#62
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Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Lisboa, Portugal
Posts: 1,608
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Maelstrom does the Pontius Pilate thing and washes his hands.
I have no reason to ban or accept said members on this site. I leave the decisions to other moderators/administrators.
Probation? Banishment? I have no idea...
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08-31-2005, 05:01 AM
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#63
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Join Date: Aug 2004
Posts: 261
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I am def. done debating this matter and I too wash my hands of it. Al, go head and put whatever spin you want to on it, but you know What I just stated earlier in this thread is true. You also befriended me and broke your word. And threatened me countless amounts of times. When I recently logged back on this site under my original name I mentioned nothing of any of this, YOU decided to immediately call me a stalker and other insults.
Again, ever hear of slander!
Say what you will Al and I'm sure everyone will believe you so don't sweat it!
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08-31-2005, 05:02 AM
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#64
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 271
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I just wanted to step in and take this opportunity clarify a couple things. The community editorial policy regarding inappropriate posts and/or actively abusive members has shifted a bit. This is natural, given that the various people ultimately in charge have changed. It is our intention to be fair and somewhat non-intrusive, but I thought it might be wise to let people know where we stand on such matters.
If a member posts something clearly abusive or wholly inappropriate, it is likely that their post may be deleted, particularly if it shows no value to the community. However, if they post things that are simply a little off track or perhaps a little out of line, we'd really much rather they were corrected and/or shown the correct mode or location to express themselves.
Members that are relentlessly abusive or inappropriate might potentially face banning as a last resort, when other options have clearly not worked.
Now, to be wholly honest, although we have been watching this site, and this community, for years now, we are not intimately familiar with all the ins and outs of some of the past drama. In an effort to be reasonable and fair, we'd really prefer to judge people on a going forward basis. If you are behaving properly, you should have nothing to worry about. If you have questions about what is and is not appropriate, please look to the various moderators for guidance. Hopefully, they can help steer you in the right direction so that everyone can be happy and get along in a productive, informative, and entertaining manner.
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08-31-2005, 05:15 AM
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#65
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Join Date: Aug 2004
Posts: 261
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Regardless of whatever happened in the past on either of our behalfs I'm not one to hold grudges. And I would like to offer Al a handshake as a symbol of peace and moving foward. And I'm not being sarcastic.
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08-31-2005, 05:35 AM
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#66
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Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 554
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You lied. That is the whole point here.
YOU LIED. Which makes you a liar, no matter how many "Woe is me" or "Pity me" posts you make.
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08-31-2005, 05:37 AM
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#67
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Join Date: Aug 2004
Posts: 261
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Fair enough I deserve that.
But I'm not looking for pity.
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08-31-2005, 05:39 AM
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#68
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Join Date: Aug 2004
Posts: 261
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I'd like to point out that I am not the only liar though, since were pointing fingers AGAIN.
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08-31-2005, 05:43 AM
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#69
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Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 554
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DCreep, that post was to BoleroBelle.
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08-31-2005, 05:46 AM
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#70
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Join Date: Aug 2004
Posts: 261
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Oopps, at least I'm honest. HaHa
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08-31-2005, 05:50 AM
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#71
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Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 554
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No worries, I should have clarified.
And BoleroBelle, after a cup of coffee and a can of soda, I am not going to apologize for the harshness of my post to you. But better yet, say this:
It would have been a much wiser move just to expose yourself (No, really, strip! Raaawr!) than to hide who you actually were. Could have made it fun, with a new icon that said "Awaiting Inquisition" or something?
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08-31-2005, 07:18 AM
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#72
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 70
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Perhaps it would have been. But i was waiting for Empty Purple Stars to come back and reveal myself to her. I didn't think of using my old handle of Bodnoirbabe because i thought my IP would still be banned, as the old member list was still intact. That's why i made a new name that was SIMILAR.
I did not lie. I was framed by what happened and the moderators around here have been spreading lies about me, calling me psycho and saying that i'm more people then i ever was. I am not Bexxle. I was not Sinsluver or whatever her name was, and i CERTAINLY was not Lestats Lover. I had concrete proof of this, Soul. Why don't any of you get that? I Had proof in my hands of my innocence of what happened and NONE of the mods or administration wanted to take a look at it, much less TRY to sort out what happened? OKay? I HAD PROOF! it's not my fault that they turned a blind eye.
How would you feel if you come to a site you've loved one day and found out you were banned? A bit like i felt i'm sure. And maybe you would have left it alone, but i do not like having my name besmirged around these boards and i'm unable to protect myself. How would you like? I doubt you'd feel really good about it Soul, or anyone else. So i came back cause i felt i was unjustly banned. And i was trying to get in a good place with Sandmanhero and feel maybe that Bodnoirbabe could come back. i went about it the wrong way. Sandmanhero was here to test the waters. I shouldn't have done it, but i did.
And alkilyu lied to you all as well, because the ENTIRE TIME that i was Sandmanhero, he knew, along with another person on here. ANd he didn't say ANYTHING to anyone. He bold faced lied to all of you just as much as i did.
ANd apparently he's bold faced lied to ME and DCreep as well. Alkilyu and I would talk on IM for MONTHS while i was Sandmanhero. WE talked about everything and he even wanted me to Go to the convention in SF to meet me. OKay? So your precious little Alkilyu is making himself out to be a better person in all this then he acted.
None of the members here know what happened. You all only know what the Mods EPS and ALkilyu have told you. There was a lot that happened behind these boards that you never even heard about, including countless threads that were deleted in hopes that i wont have a voice. And handfuls of PM's that went ignored. I did my part to rectify the situation and i was ignored.
I can certainly understand how the members of this community can think the worst of me when I've been banned and unable to defend myself or tell the truth and you've all been listning to just the mods that banned me anyhow.
BUt even the NEW people who were here AFTER this all toook place have a negative outlook on who i am because EPS and Alkilyu are STILL slandering my name. calling me psycho whenever my name is mentioned and telling their altered story of what happened.
Let me give you an example. BExxle, the person they think i also am, she lives in TEXAS. i live in CALIFORNIA. A simple check of IP's could have shown that A) we live over 500 miles apart and B) that none of the IP's that we were posting from were remotly similar. yet, to this day, EVERYONE still thinks that i'm HER. Why? Because Alkilyu and EPS are telling you that, even NOW.
The plain and simple thing is that i liked this site. I really enjoyed all the people that were here and that i became friends with while i was here. And the trouble didn't start until EPS and OTFW got snippy with me about a suggestion i made. Hmm....funny, and it was EPS that told Darren to Ban me. Coincidence? I don't think so. She's proved that she can be a bit bold in her moderating actions. I wouldn't put it below her to not give me a second chance cause she didn't like me.
I don't know who's in charge of this place now. If it's Darren, he seems to be a lot more agreeable now. But that message they left, if that's an invite to come back As Bodnoirbabe and give me a second chance, i'll take it. Just spell it simple for me, okay? cause i would hate to come back and then get banned cause that's not what it meant.
I would greatly love to have the opportunity to FINALLY defend myself. And until i do, i certainly hope that all of you will not just take one side of the story as gospel truth.
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08-31-2005, 08:02 AM
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#73
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Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 554
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Ok sweetheart, READ CAREFULLY.
You.
Lied.
About.
Who.
You.
Were.
And if you were waiting for EPS to come back and reveal who you really were to her, why didn't you just lay low and keep off of the board instead of making everyone think you were someone new? So you made a name that was similiar to the one you recently had (BodnoirBabe) to tip us off, right? But you wanted to be known as someone else...
If that is the case why pretend to be someone else then reveal who you are? Sweetie, why pretend at all?!
An IP ban is an IP BAN. You could have still logged on as BodnoirBabe if the account still existed from another computer, I am sure. If I am wrong, no harm no foul.
This is the last time I will be posting on the matter.
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08-31-2005, 09:05 AM
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#74
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: California
Posts: 135
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You know there are some things that I've never understood, perhaps one of you in your infinite fucking wisdom could explain it to me. Now if this is just a forum, why do some people...the the liar in question....take it so seriously? Why do they make multiple accounts, post hundreds (sometimes thousands) of times. Why do they lie, why do they betray the trust of others? Why do they do things here that, if they did them in the real world, would earn them a curb stomping?
Are their real lives really /that/ pathetic that they need to come here and do such things. Are they that starved for attention that they need to come here and make people hate them? Because actions like these don't win you friends, they don't make people like you, no they make people despise you, or at least treat you with a big steaming truckload of scorn.
I'll admit I'm rather new to the community, and by rather I mean freshly popped out of the community womb. But I make sure I don't act like too much of a jackass and get people pissed at me. Maybe it's just because I'm, as I said, new and don't want to step on peoples toes. Or maybe it's because I'm not a self centered shithead who feels the need to cause problems. So I have to ask, why do you some of you feel the need to cause problems? I would really like to know.
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08-31-2005, 09:27 AM
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#75
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Posts: 2,130
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Yes I knew, not right away but eventually, you were Sandmanhero. I wasn't a mod, I was new, and I didn't say shit. That didn't last very long because not long after you admitted to me who you were, you made an insane amount of threads, at which point I told EPS who you were. I felt really low in keeping that from her, and I apologized for about a week straight.
Regarding that convention, you kept asking if I was going and I said I was, and you kept saying how you were going to go to clear your name (again, a lot of work for a messageboard) but just because I didn't say "NO DON'T GO!" doesn't mean I was drooling at the prospect of it either. I don't ignore people's IMs, I'm not a snob, but not blocking you does not equal wanting you. And after you told the story of the guy friend of your's that used to be a "friend with priviledges" and how you went to his house one night to visit and his mother and some other relative was there for dinner, and how she told him (and he you) that she thought you were, your words not mine, a "stalker", I stopped replying to you right then and there.
The board, not just me or EPS, but members in general, talked about how sad and annoying your actions were. But both of you are acting like victims and placing the blame on two people, when in fact it was the majority of the board who wanted nothing to do with you. You obviously don't think much of the members here if you claim that they blindly follow what I say. They make their own desicions, and they decided against the both of you.
And for those new to this, after a female member told DCreep numerous times she wanted nothing to do with him, he told her he was going to go to her college to meet her and wanted to know her dorm number...after she said she wanted nothing to do with him. That is an FYI to anyone who wasn't here for the original drama and wonders how vertain opinions of these people came to be...
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