Fetishes and Sexual Quirks (X-rated)

[Naked Lunch]

Domination

[sibyl vane.]

D/s, mostly: breathplay, exhibitionism, dirty talk, teasing, erotic hypnosis (though I haven't had a lot of practice). I like both to dominate and be dominated--having my wrists pinned down is a big deal for me; in fact, taking my wrists and even lightly brushing or pressing on my pulsepoints is likely to make me a little shivery. I don't know why. Power of association, maybe? Ha.

I like leather/latex too -- definitely not as much as others seem to, though.

[Devil Tiger]

Originally Posted by sibyl vane.

D/s, mostly: breathplay, exhibitionism, dirty talk, teasing, erotic hypnosis (though I haven't had a lot of practice). I like both to dominate and be dominated--having my wrists pinned down is a big deal for me; in fact, taking my wrists and even lightly brushing or pressing on my pulsepoints is likely to make me a little shivery. I don't know why. Power of association, maybe? Ha.

I like leather/latex too -- definitely not as much as others seem to, though.

Oh Shit! Could you say that all again. Just slower this time, and with a French accent?

[sibyl vane.]

Sure thing, mon cher.

[Vale of Dallas Texas]

Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

I like the bondage and all that good stuff blah blah blah...but they've been mentioned.

I like watersports. I'm serious.

Maybe I am a bit late to the conversation but really, could you share with us a verbal exploration of the experience?

I like breast milk, well rather lactation during sex.

[Lochnar]

Nothing like a pair of red rosy buns on your lap...or over your knee...

[Vale of Dallas Texas]

Originally Posted by Vale of Dallas Texas

Maybe I am a bit late to the conversation but really, could you share with us a verbal exploration of the experience?

I like breast milk, well rather lactation during sex.

sheeesh i am obviously new at this thread business.

I was wanting that person to tell us what it is about being pissed on that is stimulating.

And the last part I was trying to get across, was that although I do not like the whole pee-pee thing. I have liked the time when my wifes breast's were dripping milk during sex down onto my chest.


So yhea.

I get into other things though.

I do find myself really just liking pain ol' sex, or good fucking. However you want to call it.

Visually I am stimulated by all of that lovely bondage and burlesque ladies. But I have never been with any women like that.

I bet they do exist, but I got married before I found one.

I could be a proud american and be a statistic, I could see it now,

"Husband leaves wife and child for raging dominatrix", "Husband says He's never been happier!", "To submit, is to Smile"

oh man, What a life.

Would be cool.

= )

[blindNsect]

Bland Missionary

[Vale of Dallas Texas]

Originally Posted by blindNsect

Bland Missionary

Funny you should say missionary, my wife likes that position, and I don't.

[blindNsect]

Sucks fer you. I was kidding.

[DRM]

Manhandling.
: )
Nothing like being pushed around to get you hot.

[cultistofvertigo]

I think it's wonderful that most posts on here begin "bondage, domination, blah blah blah" assuming (rightfully) that it isn't really worth elaborating on, and most people share it. Not only that, but when I think about trying to list mine, all that comes to mind is "bondage, etc."

That reminds of a funny story. So I was with this pathological liar who didn't even shave her legs (I should never be prettier than a girl I'm fucking at any given time, one of the reasons I didn't bother and left her) and she was asking me all these questions about my fetishes, because she thought they were wierd. What fetishes exactly? The normal ones.

So I said something like "I don't understand how you could be surprised by any of this... these are like the most common fetishes ever." And She's all "Um, no, I've never heard of anyone having any fetishes like that."

Keep in mind now, I'm talking about bondage, domination, heels, sadism, all that other boring crap, not cannibalism or bubblegum chewing or balloon fucking or any wierd stuff that isn't terribly ordinary. So I says to her I says "Well then what the hell is the most common fetish then?"

You are not going to believe what she said: anthropomorphic animals. No shit. You know like Mickey Mouse and shit? That. Chicks with ears and a tail and covered in fur. They even have a name: furries. Explains why she didn't shave I guess.

I swear to you, none of this is made up.

I might have some wierd fetishes, but I wouldn't really know how bizzarre they are, so I don't know what to bring up. Example: pink is one of my favorite colors (or could you tell?) and in any sort of sexual context it becomes a turn on. I don't really know if that's notable or not.

[Apathy's_Child]

Yeah, I hear that shit. Before my current girlfriend, I screwed around with so many girls who claimed they were into "kinky shit", then looked at me like I was a freak when I asked her to put her long leather boots - surely one of the most common fetishes EVER - on while we were building up to a fuck. Turns out that "I like kinky shit" means "I own a pair of pink furry handcuffs and I don't really mind if you put them on me, but that's about all, tiger - and no rough stuff, 'kay?"

I mean, it's cool if you're not into certain things, but it's kind of annoying when every swingin' dick in town thinks they're a fucking pornstar 'cause they once wore chains and carried a whip to a pimps & hoes party, then freaks out when you ask for something ridiculously innocuous.

But yeah, one of the nicer things about leaving my teenage years was realizing just howincredibly common this shit is, after years of thinking I was a weirdo (an idea helped along by the lack of internet, probably).

[Man In Room 5]

You guys must have dated some seriously lame ass fucking chicks. However, I probably have you beat. I once dated a chick who claimed she had never masturbated. Was she being honest? I have no clue, but I dropped her fast. I figured, if she doesn't care about her sex organs why the fuck should I care about them?

[sibyl vane.]

Originally Posted by Man In Room 5

You guys must have dated some seriously lame ass fucking chicks. However, I probably have you beat. I once dated a chick who claimed she had never masturbated. Was she being honest? I have no clue, but I dropped her fast. I figured, if she doesn't care about her sex organs why the fuck should I care about them?

A lot of girls don't really get masturbation or don't know how to come by themselves, I've noticed.

[cultistofvertigo]

Originally Posted by Man In Room 5

You guys must have dated some seriously lame ass fucking chicks. However, I probably have you beat. I once dated a chick who claimed she had never masturbated. Was she being honest? I have no clue, but I dropped her fast. I figured, if she doesn't care about her sex organs why the fuck should I care about them?

Ha! That's hilarious! What fun.

I was with this one chick who seemed pretty ordinary at first, then ended up being wierder than me. It was like... gross. Forget I said anything.

[Saya]

Originally Posted by Man In Room 5

You guys must have dated some seriously lame ass fucking chicks. However, I probably have you beat. I once dated a chick who claimed she had never masturbated. Was she being honest? I have no clue, but I dropped her fast. I figured, if she doesn't care about her sex organs why the fuck should I care about them?

Did she say why? Some women have really uber sensitive clits and it hurts >.> TMI warning, I couldn't masturbate at all until like two years ago, it just really hurt whenever I attempted it, and in high school our sex ed was great in that it wasn't abstinence only shit, but it completely ignored female pleasure and in grade seven our sex ed teacher actually told us that girls don't masturbate, so I was pretty ignorant about it. But anyway,even when I learned the difference it took a long time to figure out how to get rid of the pain.

That and actually a lot of women feel shame about their sex organs, I know women who would never let a man go down on her because its too dirty.

And to add to the discussion of unadventurous lovers, my first boyfriend would often brag about all the awesome and kinky sex he has had, but thought getting in the shower with me was just too much.

[Man In Room 5]

Originally Posted by Saya

Did she say why? Some women have really uber sensitive clits and it hurts >.> TMI warning, I couldn't masturbate at all until like two years ago, it just really hurt whenever I attempted it,

She believed the whole "masturbation is wrong" thing, or at least that is what she claimed. That's partly why I dropped her. I figured anyone with that attitude can't have an interesting sex life and I didn't like the idea that she let other people tell her what was right and wrong in bed anyway. It implied that she wasn't going to experiment much.


Not to dwell on your sex life, but I found what you said odd. If it hurt to touch any certain point then weren't there other places to touch which felt good? If point X hurts then wouldn't you just move further away from point X until you found the right sensation? I'd assume you'd just move out from that point until you found somewhere that balanced it out.

[Saya]

Originally Posted by Man In Room 5

She believed the whole "masturbation is wrong" thing, or at least that is what she claimed. That's partly why I dropped her. I figured anyone with that attitude can't have an interesting sex life and I didn't like the idea that she let other people tell her what was right and wrong in bed anyway. It implied that she wasn't going to experiment much.

Ah, yeah I'd probably dump her too.

Not to dwell on your sex life, but I found what you said odd. If it hurt to touch any certain point then weren't there other places to touch which felt good? If point X hurts then wouldn't you just move further away from point X until you found the right sensation? I'd assume you'd just move out from that point until you found somewhere that balanced it out.

Touching the clit at all hurt, and I don't get a whole lot of pleasure anywhere else if the clit isn't being stimulated. I can't remember where I read it but I remember reading that women with that problem find touching through underwear made it less painful, personally I just kept trying different positions and different types of lube until it stopped hurting and actually got pleasure.

[PortraitOfSanity]

Originally Posted by Saya

my first boyfriend would often brag about all the awesome and kinky sex he has had, but thought getting in the shower with me was just too much.

What an idiot, shower sex > all.

Girls look great when their hair gets wet, and their eyelashes get all funky.

[Pineapple_Juice]

Originally Posted by sibyl vane.

A lot of girls don't really get masturbation or don't know how to come by themselves, I've noticed.

Yes they do. They're just fucking liars.

[Pineapple_Juice]

Originally Posted by PortraitOfSanity

What an idiot, shower sex > all.

Girls look great when their hair gets wet, and their eyelashes get all funky.

Not me. I look like an undead zombie when I've not got my hair done and some makeup on, ergo any time shower sex is mentioned to me I always turn sneakily around so said man is looking at my back the whole time. Then I usher him out of the bathroom afterwards so I can blowdry.

[sibyl vane.]

Originally Posted by Pineapple_Juice

Yes they do. They're just fucking liars.

I know some girls do lie about it, but I've heard it mainly in the context of, "I can't get myself off, am I a freak?"

[d0p3y]

intelligence gets me off. is that wierd??

[Pineapple_Juice]

Not really. Unless you're saying in the heat of passion you like them to start spouting off about quantum physics theories-that'd be odd.


I like when dudes dress in cop uniforms. Any uniform, really, but especially a cop one. Also, not a fetish but still weird, I like when people breathe into or lick my ear 'cause it gives me shivers.