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Straght
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Gay
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Lesbian
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Bisexual
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Pansexual
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04-06-2008, 02:16 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Under your floorboards
Posts: 519
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Sexual Orientation.
I was just wondering would the majority of people in the Goth subculture be either straight or anything else.
I'd also like to hear about any stories people have where their sexuality conflicts with their lifestyle, how they've found being LGBT in the goth community etc etc. Discuss ^-^
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04-06-2008, 02:23 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Under your floorboards
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Oh dear! I apologise profusely for misspelling "straight".
I would edit only for the five minute rule >-<.
Apologies.
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04-06-2008, 02:25 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Nowhere
Posts: 1,835
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I'm straight. I was bi-curious at point, but soon realized that it just wasn't me. And then I moved to a gay neighborhood. I enjoyed living there, the people were nice, it was easy to get by there, and it's where I met my wife. I've had a few run-ins with gay guys that just wouldn't accept the fact that I'm straight, but there's a few assholes everywhere you go.
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04-06-2008, 02:54 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: In the broken temple bells, in the ringing...
Posts: 5,979
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Straight over here * waves * To be perfectly honest I've never wanted to even kiss another woman let alone anything else. Don't have problem with others doing it of course.
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04-06-2008, 02:58 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
Posts: 8,001
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How are you defining pansexual?
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04-06-2008, 03:14 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Under your floorboards
Posts: 519
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia
How are you defining pansexual?
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As it's always been defined. You fall in love regardless of gender, and sexual attraction comes thereafter.
It's different to bisexual in that a bisexual may either go for a man or a woman depending on what body they may desire.
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04-06-2008, 03:22 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
Posts: 8,001
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All right, I gotcha.
I'd be pansexual.
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04-06-2008, 03:29 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
Posts: 5,290
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I sometimes appreciate men and women because they are men and women, but the few times I've actually fallen for someone of the same sex, it wasn't because they were the same sex. So.. I'm bi and pansexual. It depends.
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04-06-2008, 03:32 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
Posts: 8,001
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Wait, am I confused as to the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality? When I fall in love--gender means nothing to me, it's like hair colour. I think I'm right to assume that makes me pansexual. However, like Korinna just said, I definitely appreciate the male aspects of males and the female parts of females.
I would think that just goes with it...or would that make me a bisexual also...?
I feel like to say that implies that pansexuals cannot appreciate their partner's bodies sexually.
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04-06-2008, 04:09 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
Posts: 5,290
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Pansexuality is.. gender-blind, and extends to transgendered individuals. I think THAT is the "big difference".
All I know is that I like people, end of story. Men, women, and transgendered.. it's all good. I'm just glad I'm not asexual.
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04-06-2008, 04:14 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: London
Posts: 3,231
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Pan, I suppose.
It doesn't matter if they're male, female, other. Beautiful, intelligent people will always be beautiful, intelligent people.
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04-06-2008, 04:15 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: North Cackalacky
Posts: 2,044
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I've gone through my share of "bi-curiosity." I realized that vaginas are disgusting, girls are dramatic and overemotional, and I hate the softness of a girl's touch. I like manly men. ;D
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04-06-2008, 04:17 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Ukraine, Russia and Jordan
Posts: 198
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Straight, i feel pity for bi, and gay guys in the army as well.
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04-06-2008, 04:17 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
Posts: 5,290
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I've always been a fan of androgyny..
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04-06-2008, 05:08 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: The Icy Forest of New England
Posts: 2,535
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I used to say pansexual, but I am kind of confused more like it. I voted bisexual. I voted that way because I look at girls more sexually then I do men. But I have fallen in love with a guy and right now he is my boyfriend. But I don't have that much of a sexual attraction with him that I would have with a girl.
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04-06-2008, 06:15 PM
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Join Date: May 2006
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 2,126
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Xombie
girls are dramatic and overemotional
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Too true, too true, if only they weren't so damn pretty.
I'm straight. Men Irk me to no bounds with their arrogance, bad body odor, ugly teeth and flatulence and I wonder how on earth women can tolerate us and how the human race managed to procreate in the stone age.
No, you don't have to explain the dynamics to me, I understood it fully at the age of seven.
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04-06-2008, 07:08 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Minnesota, USA
Posts: 4,448
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I'm straight. I've never looked at dudes the same way I look at girls.
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04-06-2008, 07:16 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Harlem
Posts: 6,909
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Pansexuality. I don't have a normal sex drive, so sex is not the main catalyst of my attraction to people. If you're a good person and can pull off your natural looks without looking like a slob, then I'll probably be attracted to you.
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04-06-2008, 08:38 PM
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#19
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Earth
Posts: 2,000
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I think i'm bi. Better to be bi then being restricted to liking one gender.
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04-06-2008, 08:44 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: El Paso, Texas/ Ciudad Juarez, Chihuahua
Posts: 9,203
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I feel attracted by some men, but never sexually. I just acknowledge their good looks, and some times I do find myself staring at men, but the word "pansexual" implies sexuality in some way, so I think I'm straight.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by George Carlin
People who say they don’t care what people think are usually desperate to have people think they don’t care what people think.
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04-06-2008, 08:47 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Harlem
Posts: 6,909
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A romantic relationship doesn't necessarily require sexual intercourse. Alas, it's not really my place to convince people what they are or aren't.
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04-06-2008, 09:03 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: In the Desert
Posts: 4,270
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I am straight, though, I have nothing against the other peeps, they all be cool.
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04-06-2008, 09:20 PM
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#23
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 2,687
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I'm straight. I have no idea how anyone can be attracted to men, but I thank god that they are.
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04-06-2008, 09:43 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
Posts: 8,030
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I would say that I am bisexual, judging by the fact that I have fallen for both guys and girls, then again I haven't met anyone who was transgendered so I suppose I could be pansexual and just not know it yet
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04-06-2008, 09:49 PM
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#25
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Harlem
Posts: 6,909
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I'm gothicusexual.
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