The beauty of Convergence is that you get to meet net goths you have only known online. That's really the point - to create a place for all these people who only know each other online to finally meet in real life.
I don't know (in real life) any net goths. In fact, I don't really know any goths period. I'll be traveling with my decidedly ungoth-looking boyfriend. But I'm still going to Convergence, and I'll have a blast!